sammygirly: Whoa, wait - what did she have surgery for? ...because i would almost bet it wasn't you. There are LOTS of reasons sex can hurt for a woman, size aside and LOTS of those reasons could result in surgery - again, without having anything to do with your size at all. Don't be so quick to blame yourself - it probably wasn't you, and her surgery may have fixed that entirely so you may have nothing to worry about.
IF it was you, say maybe tearing because it was forced...use lube next time. But um, a woman who doesn't want foreplay?!?!? i thought that was an urban legend...like the bigfoot ~LOL~ |