bigintn: I've ran into the same problem the past month I met a girl and she's unusually tight we've had sex twice and I kept asking her if she was ok but she ended up in the hospital having surgery and was out of work for 2 weeks, the doctor asked her if she had sex lately and if it had hurt and she said yes to both she doesnt blame me but now I'm afraid I'm going to be afraid to even try without hurting her more, it's got me down even tho she says she can't wait, as far as foreplay goes i guess i will need to implement it next time i tried the first time but she just wanted it she didn't want to wait