awellhungboi: I'm pretty quiet by nature, and got used to cumming quietly so that family, roommates, etc. wouldn't hear me masturbating. But I've discovered in the past couple of years that being loud, making noise, groaning, grunting, etc. seems to actually enhance orgasm. Anybody else feel the same way? I enjoy 'dirty' talk during sex too--it's a huge turn-on, for me and, I've found, for most women I've been with. I used to date a girl who was really good at knowing exactly what to say and when to say it, "I love your huge cock; god fuck my tight pussy" etc. etc., all that stuff that sounds corny in a porno movie but takes on whole new meaning when someone's actually panting it into your own ear. :) Funny, though, she always wanted me to keep my eyes open when I came--I don't know why--and I found that nearly impossible to do. Anyway, to have a really spasming, quivering cumfest, seems to be a good way to give your partner a big thumbs up! (So to speak). Although no one has yet made me let out a thundering scream, I'm hopeful and continuing the screening process. ;)