unexpected: you're thinkin too much :P

seriously, i couldn't agree more. funny you mention, because in a recent post i commented on a long-time friend of mine who got in bed for the first time recently, only to find out that she was a virgin and could not take me!

i was disappointed, but like you say if i were to have forced it i would ruin her perception of sex with large men, perhaps any man, and most of all it would ruin our friendship