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Old 11-05-2002   #6 (permalink)
ericbear
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[quote author=orcohen666 link=board=meetgreet;num=1036532925;start=0#0 date=11/05/02 at 13:48:45]do u think it means im bi or something?[/quote]

From a gay man's perspective, the answer is probably not. Here's someting to think about:

Why does all STRAIGHT porn, intended for a hetero male audience, feature men with big dicks, the bigger the better? Why is it that in straight porn, it is the guys that are the stars, get their names on the video box, and the women are for the most part just sort of extra, necessary to support the male star? Why aren't the women promoted as stars, with the men being secondary? Why aren't the male stars poorly endowed?

The producers know that the straight men viewing the film will get aroused by seeing endowed, virile men having sex, so they arrange their films around these elements. But these viewers aren't bi or gay. Nevertheless, male sexuality at least helps turn them on. The usual theory as to why this is so is that men watching the film identify with the men acting in the film, and feel themselves playing in that scene in the male role. Obviously, the more male sexual prowess of the actor, the better for those having a vicarious experience watching him.

So, you don't have to be bi or gay to get aroused over some other guy's dick. You saw another man who also obviously had a big dick, and could identify with him on that mutual basis. This made you think of your own big dick, and your own sexuality, your own prowess, what you could do with your dick. He was probably horny, since he was fondling it a bit, and you identified with this feeling, too.