"Once" is one time too many, eh?
Let's talk about a phenomenon called situational bisexuality, a term used loosely to describe the transience of sexuality and its labels when impacted with certain life situations. One common, but often debated, example includes adolescence and the same-sex exploration that most young men and women experience. Or, in a more pointed case, the homosexual activities among imprisoned men occur in a matrix of incarceration, domination and control, and intimidation. So, in other words, if Bubba pins Luke against the wall and demands to fuck him... perhaps because he has overstepped his boundaries, being the new inmate and all... then what?
Upon leaving the prison, Bubba lives his life "normally," fucking women at his own whim. If asked in confidence, he'd probably lie. "No, I'm not a faggot," he might say. But he did nail that dude in the porker, right? Is it because he's a burly guy who was the assertive and dominate partner that he can merely chalk it up to heresay, nothing, or as a sign of his awesome virility?
Granted, very few of us will probably live an experience similar to Bubba's and Luke's, but it does raise the interesting question. DMilker was looking for delineations -- the "how many times" it takes for someone to "turn" non-straight. And if you ask me personally, I think anyone who isn't a Kinsey Zero will quickly inform you that sexuality is so much more fluid than that...
And if that weren't the case, well damn, as urban gay myth goes, I'd get my toaster by now... probably even a hand mixer or a blender or somethin'. |