Number Of Orgasms = Love ?

Organisms?!

it's no joke. once you get organisms you've gotta buy powder to make them go away.

Actually in the case of women that is partially true. There have been studies done over the past few years, by the Mayo Clinic I believe, that identified a chemical that is secreted by women when they has sex. This secretion gives a woman a powerful feeling of connection with the man they're with. Not exactly love, but definitely a step in the right direction towards answering the old joke about why women fall in love after they have sex with a guy...

I do know that in a lot of cases it is easier for women to have an orgasm with someone that they DO love. I don't know if it necessarily works the other way around.

Happened to a girl I knew in high school. Her boyfriend cheated on her with this other girl, she found out about it, it was over. (Interesting story: The other girl let it slip because she'd already delivered an ultimatum to the guy that he had to break up with one of them so she'd thought they'd already broken up.) Last I heard he cheated on the other girl with a third girl.

Hey, Knight,
No. I've had terrific sex with some partners, but it wasn't enough to sustain the relationship. One guy was INCREDIBLY sexy, but in all other aspects, he was a taker, not a giver. Had to let him go.

I've always loved my hands, even before I learned other uses for them when I was 11.

What about the reverse situation? Would someone fall *out* of love because the sex was bad?


--Matt

I fell *out* of love with someone because he had no respect for my needs as a woman. Does that count?

Tell me your needs dlcs ;) hehe

And Matt, you can upload your picture to somewhere like www.myspace.com and not have the LPSG thing going through it.

Also if 'womanly needs' is a cheeky way of saying 'orgasms' then yes it does count.

More like the need to not be treated like all I was good for was sex.
Funny how J sees me as a whole person... he just left, in fact. No action but lots of cuddling. And no groping whilst mid-cuddle, which is quite nice.

I guess my biggest need as a woman is to not be objectified. I think that's why this forum speaks to me... we deal with each other as sexual beings, not as sexual objects.

Dig it there, dlcs, that's one of the reasons I tend to identify with you on this, since existing as an object really has no place for me at all.

Yes, yes of course.

Now, put this paper bag over your head and bend over.

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Originally Posted by Knight I'm wondering if the more orgasms someone gives you, the more you love or like them ?

Ah, the Love/Sex conundrum.
It's the chemistry and hormone’s fault.
Try to keep your head.

My response is no.
Love and good sex are not related.
Mostly different magic working in the background.

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Even though you might not be compatible on any other than a sexual level, would you or have you stayed with someone just because they make you cum like no other ?

Cannot answer.
I have never been with anyone I have not been compatible with on other than a purely sexual plane.

I have initiated and maintained relationships simply out of lust.
I have received the same attention.

Once she’s returned for the third experience; she’s not going to be easy to ignore.

I must be in lust with myself then...