oldman9x7: I'm confused. How is it that we read so many reports in THESE POSTS about 8 to 15 year olds being "helped" by their loving aunt or step-mother and I don't recall anyone screaming , "pedophile". Plus, a good many of this group profess to be much into oral sex so I don't think that's the sticking point. So where DO you come up with all this rightiousness?

I am 83 years old and I can tell you that I never, ever felt that I had been "abused", and for all your hokey-pokey psychoanalysis let me just say that I have been stricrly hetero my whole life. Give yourself a little more time and maybe when you can view life from my vantage point you'll understand that setting yourself up to judge "others" is neither wise nor advantageouus. In fact, the best that any of us can do is to be true to ourselves and see that our own skirts are clean of the sins for which we would condem others.
Gramps