For those of you who sleep with someone else...

hung_big: I've only had one serious relationship before (granted, I am fifteen) my semi-current one, and I loved to fall asleep with her. It was so nice cuddling. And, surprisingly, it was better even when we didn't have sex...because we weren't hot and sticky and uncomfortable. it was better when she had a party at her house and everyone left and we were dead tired and we would just fall asleep together. She would look at me and play with my hair and then I would turn her around and we would cuddle, almost like spooning, but no sexual contact. I miss those days, just like Kyle *joins the sighing*.

Maybe I will be cuddling with someone I love sooner than I hoped...:)

I miss those days too...my ex and I used to cuddle up, but didn't really get to do much bed time together considering both our families were over paranoid, so we never had sex either, but that's just as well. I hope to cuddle with someone special to me in the near future though. Summer should bring a lot of fun times. For me at least :P I dunno I've always been the cuddly type. :) :wub: :P

Dr. Rock.
Well, roling over & crushing boyfriend's genitals is a concern of mine. I tend to be aware when I'm rolling over, so I avoid that area. Plus, he rarley sleeps on his back.

heh good thing I'm starting to sleep on my stomach more often :)

I usually sleep on my side and it still happens way too often. not so much when there's only one other person in the bed with me, but with two it's downright dangerous :(

It varies. My BP changes my nature from time to time. right now, I don't sleep well because I'm used to my bf being there and he's not around alot right now.

My wife has begun snoring so loudly that not only can I not sleep in the same bed with her, I can't even sleep in the same room. It's a real problem.

SG

Speedo, encourge her to get a medical evaulation. My ex snored loudly (guess he still does) & we slept in separate bedrooms for the last 4 yrs. of our marriage. He refused to see a doctor for any kind of evaulation. I diagnosed him severe sleep apnea (which is also a heart attack waiting to happen). I know his refusal to seek medical attention was a factor in our divorce (plus no cuddling, etc.-he wasn't one for cuddling anyway). I figured if he didn't care enough to seek medical attention to enable us to actually sleep together & occasionally roll over & enjoy one another, then he really didn't care much for our marriage.

Yeh, I like the cuddling part after sex mostly because I'm more relaxed. Otherwise it's hard for me to do if I'm really horny. My dick just doesn't go down. I love to sleep with my girlfriend but it's harder for her because I toss & turn all night & keep her awake. I can't even wear any pajamas. They just come off with all the movement. I wear my underwear & a t-shirt now,but the briefs come off too during the night & sometimes I almost strangle myself when the t-shirt comes rising up. :D

Can I watch?

Jerry: I've been single most of my life and therefore sleep alone on a king size bed. I'm a dead to the world type sleeper so not much wakes me, except throbbing hard ons at 3 am.

My last g/f would sleep over on weekends. Only problems were she liked the side of the bed I slept on during the week. We both sleep naked or she would wear a thong or nothing and the only "problem" this created was me being awakened by her grinding her bare ass against my dick at the wee hours of the morning. Also wherever we may have been when we fell asleep we would wake up tangled together, arms and legs intertwined. Odd actually cuz we where both used to sleeping alone. Another sigh, I miss it too.

Yes! You are not alone. Now that my gf and I have been in a committed relationship for over 3 years now, this issue is affecting me more and more. Unlike those young, frantic, short-term relationships where you might be in bed together only for sex, we're at that more mature stage where we want to have our sex and get some sleep too. We don't live together and, given our schedules right now, we don't spend every night together. It sucks to be together so little, but the one upside is I at least get a good night's sleep a few nights a week. We will probably get married someday, and I have already decided that a king-sized bed will be a must when that happens. We have spent some nights in hotels with king-sized beds, and I found it made a world of difference.

There was actually a Seinfeld episode about this in which Kramer discovered the wonders of George's parents' twin beds after losing sleep being in the same bed with his gf for several nights. I believe this comfort factor--more than prudery--really explains the popularity of twin beds in the 50's, and the popularity of king beds today.

I thought the twin beds from the 1950's was due to TV's 'moral code' which said you couldn't even show a married couple in the same bed together! :D

I've shared a twin bed to a king size. You have to cuddle in a twin or one of you is on the floor! A full or queen size is fine with me, but the king size gives you more options for when you are not sleeping in the bed. ;)

LapDog :P

Yeah, they even had to have a storyline where Tarzan finds a son because they couldn't introduce Boy (and in doing so imply that Tarzan and Jane had had sex).

What's funny is, those moral codes produced whole new fetishes.