Me and my girlfriends theory on size...

... and besides... there must be Something to do between classes...
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... and besides... there must be Something to do between classes...
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Well, I work after school! I mean, you've gotta have bling if you want c-ching! (I just made that phrase up!) Anyway, I'm not sure what people think of me at uni most of the time. I'm not "super-sexay" nor "super-intelligant". I'm just me...whatever that is.

Anyway, the very thought that someone would seriously be pining for me is hillarious!

orionsword57: .....women, for the most part, engage in sexual activity because they have feelings for the guy. Whereas men, can fuck just for the fuck of it lol. A woman, generally speaking, is more about the substance of the person, then the physical, which is different then a guy....

I'd like to say from the point of view of someone of my age and with my history that generalizing gets one into trouble once in a while. I'll risk being chastised as a new poster for going into a diatribe of sorts, but here goes. My wife and I didn't actually "chose" each other for we were "matched" as a couple that made our living giving live sex shows in the 40's and 50's in NYC. We literally fell in love while we were performing and when we were together before and after "going on". We fell in love for all the reasons. We developed a life together, however, where the true lovemaking came in between the times we fucked. When we fucked, we fucked for the sheer pleasure and fulfillment of fucking, and nothing else. That attitude allowed us initially to do the things that we did in front of an audience, but it served us well for as long as she lived. We had and could do what the other wanted, and we each took as good as we gave. In that regard as well, we cared deeply for each other and could be as tender and understanding as the other. Balzac writes that one person in each union secretly wants out, but that was not the case with us. We loved everything about each other, and indeed, our idiosyncracies became the other's necessities.

In subsequent relationships after her death, I (and they) was in them for the sex, and I guess the fact that I still wore my love for her on my sleeve made it easier for the women who chose to be with me to keep the relationships at the levels they were.

Sorry to rant. I hope I don't vote myself off the island.

pdrprst: On the contrary Orion, that was very moving. I hope I can find someone that I care about that deeply in my lifetime.

As for spreading the love at Uni. . .sex in college?

I wasn't aware that students engaged in such activities.

Orca, go get 'em boy!

srv524: Well, this is the basic nomadic principle that men like to spread their seed and women like to protect their children. It's the basis of nature, and no matter how old and mature we get, there are still some of those basic nomadic principles. That's why guys get jealous and furious over a wife cheating, it's the idea that he has competition, another mate, one that could be impregnating his wife and stealing his seed....etc etc.

Probably because most of it is very male-oriented and degrading to women.

I mean sure, *some* girls may get off on that, but I can't even watch that shit most of the times. And faking an orgasm really is a turn-off for me. Most of the men in porn are a bunch of lames who wouldn't know how to get a girl off if their lives depended on it. Then you have the asshole wife-beater types determined to make the experience as uncomfortable for them as possible. It annoys the fuck out of me.
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I don't buy into that "degrading to women" bullshit. The girls (and guys) who do porn are in the industry because they want to be. No one is forcing anyone to do it.

hung_big: I think he meant degrading to women in general, not to the one in the video. Most vids seem to have some "big" cocked guy banging a chick and she is just easy and passive. If I were a girl I wouldn't get off on that, because its just like, the girl is just a sex object.

I dunno why that is different for guys, but it seems to be

Still, I don't think it's degrading at all. Hell, even my mom doesn't think it's degrading to women.

Ain't happening for a while at least!

99 percent of these women are only in it for the money. Not because they love to get beast-fucked on camera.

orionsword57: I certainly can't comment how things are now, but when my wife and I were part of the "industry", one didn't get forced into it, but you didn't decide on your own that you were going to quit unless you wanted serious consequences. The people that managed us were criminal types and if they made some of their own living off of what we did, they weren't about to let their meal tickets just fly the coop. The story of what we had to do to get away from it and then disappear for a while would surprise a lot of people.

the_force: This is my god damn thread and i'm already confused reading everyone's posts LOL

Yeah, well, a guy being passive occasionally's a good thing too.

Yeah, switching is fun! I don't know about porn being degrading to women so much as just boring. We are rarely the seducers, or shown doing anything for a living other than working in strip clubs. Not to mention the ungliness of many male pornstars. This stuff is made to excite but not intimidate joe sixpack!

I don't even think there's any seduction, just thrusting. If porn stars fumbled a bit, that would be nice too. Make things more natural.