Me and my girlfriends theory on size...

the_force: I don't particularly think it's as much a generalization as it is a attempt to explain the human sexuality. It is a a psychological belief that men are designed, anatomically speaking, to spread continue on the species as much as possible...and a woman seeks someone to protect her and her offspring. It's a sociological mating ritual basically. When seeking that, a woman will typically not care so much about the size of a man, because regardless of size, it performs it 's responsibility. The pleasure is just something to make the man and woman want to procreate.

In reference to the womens denial of their desire for larger dicks. I would say that most deny it out of fear of hurting their lovers feelings. To an extent, their denial though, is fairly accurate, especially if they love the man they're with.

And about my spelling errors, SHUT UP lol their are greater tragedies in the world then to worry about someone's spelling errors for simply typing too fast for the most part :P

Yes, I basically agree with your premise, most women will choose a guy based more on personality and relationship issues than penis size concerns. While I do think that a woman who has been with larger men may be more predisposed to liking larger, it really depends on the woman's own size. A smaller size woman may well be relieved of the burden, while a larger (vagina size) woman may find she misses the extra inches. Also, women who are comfortable enough with themselves to fully enjoy sex at all are still in the relative minority. We must remember that different studies report different facts, but it's safe to say that between 25 to 50% of women do not experience orgasm with their partners at all! While guys are wondering if their penis is big enough, women just wish they'd notice us at all!

True size queens (like me) are in the extreme minority, I don't care what anyone says. I've been seeing a guy for over a month now, and he says he's never before met a woman for whom it was a prerequisite. He says he was turned on by it, but it had never occured to him before and that his previous lovers (mainly) hadn't known until they got there.

I've met quite a few hung guys this past year, but this is the first guy I've been interested in for a relationship, so it certainly wasn't a "size only" thing at all, just a "size first, then see what else we have in common" thing. Most guys not familiar with this site aren't what I expected, because A) they've found it hot that I was into their size, B) they've been very willing to talk about their experiences, even if it was clear that we weren't going anywhere and C) a sex-only meeting was agreeable to most, since they had a choice of whether to reply to my ad or not.
Despite what may seem like a sterile way of meeting someone, I am quite pleased with the results, as I would never have met the guy I'm seeing now if not for that, and we are having a blast in the whole "getting to know you" phase.

the_force: So i guess my question to you is...if size is a prerequisite to dating you...how do you determine size? Can you just look at the person and guess? Or do you, after dating a couple times...get them to the point you're about to sleep with them, have him drop his pants...and if he's large...go for it...if not, leave?

LOL! No, I ran an ad (not kidding) and some men responded.

Great work, Zora!

So i guess my question to you is...if size is a prerequisite to dating you...how do you determine size? Can you just look at the person and guess? Or do you, after dating a couple times...get them to the point you're about to sleep with them, have him drop his pants...and if he's large...go for it...if not, leave?
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Hi here - be gentle with me - it's my first post ...

I used to think that it didn't make a difference but I've found subsequently that it does - even if they don't tell anyone else ... I guess it's a confidence thing for me ...

Holy crap. Didn't know those things worked.

WANTED: One female intelligant mixed-race mutt with glasses and long hair. Must have a sense of humour...."

I can get you a good-looking single black female who LOVES to play, walk in the woods, ride in your pickup truck, go on hunting and fishing trips, and lie by the fire. She'll be eating out of your hand, and she loves it when you rub her the right way. And every day, when you come home from work, she'll be there to greet you, naked.

My friend's Lab just had pups.

Jonb, you are wicked!

Orca, you should soooooo do it! I probably met two dozen guys over the last year, I revised my ad several times, and I finally found someone I seem to be really compatible with. Also, try several different sites because different people are attracted to different sites and it increases your chances of finding someone in your area. What's wrong with asking for what you want?

Holy crap. Didn't know those things worked.

WANTED: One female intelligant mixed-race mutt with glasses and long hair. Must have a sense of humour...."
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hey...that's me! sorry I'm already taken though. :D

Ok, but seriously back to the topic. I suppose that I could see some truth to it, even though it is based on huge generalizations. My current man is average and I've been with a couple of larger guys....no "horses" though. :D But I choose my hubby b/c he's everything I look for in a guy. Size mostly doesn't matter to me as long as they know how to work it. But I at least want something I can feel. :) I wouldn't ever leave my hubby for a larger guy though.

I think penile size played a larger role in any form of sexual selection back in primitive societies, where clothing wasn't used to cover the genitals and the junk was there for all to see.

I would imagine women (and any gays of the day) would have used obvious visuals to select their mates.

These days, though, it's more about a fat wallet and well-groomed-ness than anything. Rarely do you find someone hunting for their beau with their crotch fullness in mind, and I think 90% of those who do are currently members of this site!

...I think this came out weird. Yeah, sorry 'bout that. Meds make me delirious.

But you're so cute when you're delirious!

"work it" ???
must be doing something wrong!
:D

*Badum-tish!*
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Zora...perhaps when I've got a career to speak of. Of course, this'll probably put a lot of people off, although I do know that "men of science" calanders are popular. So someone must find an IQ and cute body sexy!
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Texass...I'm adding you to the list of "people to clone by 2020" :P
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Hey Morethan, well there's nothing wrong with having a preferance.

Orca, I don't think having a career is a prerequisite of dating! I'm pretty sure being in college is a damned fine start. Besides, how can you deprive the poor women of the UK of your fine self? *kishes*