Having Trouble Making A Decision...

scUltra · 03-09-2005

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Originally posted by naughty@Mar 9 2005, 04:13 AM
scULTRA,

Do you have to tell him? If this is something that you are just now beginning to deal with perhaps you might wait a while. You are not being sneaky or dishonest. I think we have gotten to the point where we feel we have to disclose everything about anything. Quite often our bodies tell us things before our minds register them. I have a feeling you may already have an idea of what he might do. What do you think you will do if he reacts violently or tells others ? Is this something you are ready to have shared? You are only 17 , take your time don't do something you may regret.

Naughty

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Yeah, but It would make me feel 100x better if someone knew, its like holding somthing in and you have to tell someone you know?

Royal_T · 03-12-2005

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Originally posted by scUltra@Mar 9 2005, 11:49 AM
Yeah, but It would make me feel 100x better if someone knew, its like holding somthing in and you have to tell someone you know?

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I can totally sympathize with you, as Im going through a similar thing right now. I think you should be able to tell him, but wait until youre talking together and having a comfortable relationship before hand. That way its not just 'out of the blue' stunning.

Anyway, my point is really that you should be able to talk about such things with close friends, at least sometimes. After all, you cant even mention a casual attraction to guys, or any relationship with a guy if you dont tell him. That will just make the 'holding back' feeling even bigger.

Having Trouble Making A Decision...

Originally posted by naughty @Mar 9 2005, 04:13 AM scULTRA, Do you have to tell him? If this is something that you are just now beginning to deal with perhaps you might wait a while.