DO GIRLS LIKE FACIALS?

GorgeousJane, thanks so much for the advice. To be perfectly honest, I think you and Mark are a little bit more advanced than my dh and myself. We've just started to experiment a bit with new positions and with him cuming outside of/over me. But it IS good to know for future encounters! :D

I love when he cums over my breasts and tummy, but if he were to cum above my tits, well, I think I'd have to clean up and/or shower. I'm not going to kiss him or fondle him if I am dripping from the neck or face or worse, my hair. I don't know -- from my breasts below, I can deal with it. But above, I am going to have to clean up and that would mean no post-sex cuddling and talking. I really like it when he holds me and compliments me. He also is much more open after sex than at any time when we talk. I have no idea why this is so -- you would think he could tell me things that are personal on the couch or at dinner just as easily as when we're in bed. For whatever reason, he really opens up after we make love. Maybe he feels it's a form of "thank you" for what we just did?

WOW, GorgeousJane, that IS hot!!! :evilgrin:

I think it's really affectionate for you to allow him to cover you and then for him to lick you clean. I'm a bit jealous.... :grr:

To be perfectly honest, I have about as much chance of having my husband do that to me as he has of me telling him to get a penis reduction. :D He simply isn't into doing that, in fact, he didn't like the idea of me licking it, so imagine how HE felt about it.

It's just something he's not comfortable with. I can't force him to do it, and quite honestly, it's not at the top of my list so I guess I'll just have to live it through your expereiences !! lol - Jean

GorgeousJane, I take it that when Mark comes over you, his cock is totally untouched? Neither you or him have your hands on it? No wonder you're not getting enough goo on you! :D

My husband or I ALWAYS have our hands on his cock. I've jokingly told him, "that thing is NOT gonna be loose when you cum!!" :evilgrin: Sometimes, I've had one hand on his cock and he has one hand also: we'll both guide his cock to shoot on my breasts, my stomach, even my waist. I think my dh loves it when I take control and put both of my hands on his erect 13"; but it's kinda nice when we each share the load before I get THE load!!! ;) I would hate for his stream to shoot all over the bed, or worse, over the bed, on the wall, the nighttable, etc. I'd be the one cleaing THAT up, I don't think I could ask the cleaning service to do that !! :D

I think any cock, but especially a large one, is gonna be tough to aim if someone's hands aren't on it. So maybe you or Mark should make sure one of you has their hands -- or maybe each has 1 hand? -- to guide it. That way, you get the full "goo" treatment and nothing is wasted !!! :D

Jean - I love it that Mark likes his own taste and kisses my sticky body. I think I've said before, sometimes one of us gets some of his cum in our mouth and then we kiss, so we both get to taste him! But I know it's not a particularly common thing for guys to do - none of my previous bf's have even tasted their own cum, let alone swallowed it.

No, when Mark cums one of us always has a hand on his cock - it's just that when he ejaculates, he twitches and jerks all around and even with a hand on it, the whole body's movement, especially his hips, can sometimes make aiming a little haphazard!! Hence why I usually end up covered in the stuff! But fear not, nothing is ever wasted lol !!

I think we all have our preferences. Me, personally... no. I do not want a guy cumming all over my face. For me, it is disrespectful. Again, those are just my personal thoughts. I have been in a situation where that occured. Maybe that is why I am so against the thought of it.

Granted, I want to please my guy, but that is not necessarily the way. If he wanted it and we were in a lasting and serious relationship, e.g., MARRIAGE, then I might (MIGHT) consent. Otherwise, I doubt it seriously.

I'd much rather feel him shooting inside me... it makes it more intimate.

learningirl: I agree with bblumbee here.

I am someone who enjoys going down on a guy and I am, reportedly, quite gifted in that arena. I swallow, I enjoy teasing him, and basically while I'm in control and going down on him, don't mind how "naughty" things look when it comes to the proximity of my face to his penis....

HOWEVER:

For some reason, I do not like "facials," etc. I think that makes the situation feel too much like to the guy, I'm only an object... you know, I mean, as if I could be a blow up doll or something, or he could be watching porn and have the same affect.

That's my own feeling about it...

In relationships, I am always happy to "play" and try new things, etc. so sure I'd do it if I know that my significant other would really enjoy it... but NO WAY is that something that I feel good about early on.

Also, I too like to feel his orgasm happen inside me; partially because of how he's moving at the time, and partially because I do think it's more intimate.

I'm also not saying that I don't like to feel like an "object" at times... if we're "playing" and it
s something I'm in the mood for. But even then... facials... probly not gonna happen.

We think a lot alike.... :D

I agree with all of the above women's attitudes that coming inside, whether orally or vaginally, is more intimate and much more pleasurable. I've never given a facial to a woman yet, and probably won't unless she specifically requests it. From this man's perspective, there is no real pleasure or turn-on factor to 'facials' for me.

The only times I cum outside a woman is when she is giving me a handjob to completion. That is a very erotic experience, as most guys started out doing it to themselves, so the 'other person' aspect of it is very sensual.

LapDog :P

p.s. Welcome to all the women who have joined over the last few weeks. Keep reading and posting! :D

So do we, Bblumbee!

I agree with you and Learning....I've never done a full facial in my life, though my husband has occasionally gotten a few drops on me (no big deal). Because he's so large (13") it's erotic for him to cum outside of me and we both enjoy it. Thankfully, he himself is not into facials because he does have alot of "goo" (as I call it) and there's no way I want it hitting my face and hair.

That said...if he ASKED me could he do it, would I? I probably would. My husband was alot less experienced than I was when we dated/married so if he is getting a bit more adventuresome or aggressive in the bedroom, I would probably want to encourage him. A facial I can live with, hard-XXX rough stuff I'd probably say NO (I can't see him asking though).

If a husband or a real long-term bf asks for it, that's one thing. But if any of the guys I bedded asked me for it early in our relationship, I'd definitely say NO and if they did it anyway or were insistent on it, I'd probably end the relationship.

My wife and I do it from time to time, often by accident because she wants it on her breasts. She does not like for because when sperm gets into her eyes, it gets red and inflammated (?) for the rest of the day.

Do you really have to mention this in every post?

Well, we actually ended up doing this the other night and I ended up with quite a bit of goo on my face. It wasn't deliberate -- I moved one way, my dh moved another way, and instead of aiming at my breasts, he was aiming it (blindly) right at my face. Has this ever happened to anyone else by accident?

We were both laughing as he finished up, if only because we both thought it was funny! :D

Truth be told, it was kinda messy and I had to clean up right away (I can deal with stickiness over my lower body but not my face).

I guess I have to re-answer the question by saying I don't mind it the act itself, I just hate the cleanup...sort of like how I feel about making a good meal, it's not the work involved, it cleaning up the mess afterward! :P

>>Has this ever happened to anyone else by accident?

Yeah... it was an accident. I've blatantly lied, purposely letting/knowing it can fly.

Laughing... but did you like it?

petite_asianbabe: I don't care too much for facials, its too messy. I let my boyfriend give me one
once after a blowjob and another time after doing my boobs. But I'd rather have it
in the mouth since I like the taste of his cum.

On occasion, I facial isa great turnon for me, but I have to be really into the guy and the sex and I MUST know in advance. You can't believe how bad that stuff stings when it its you in the eyes :hurts:

A titty fuck facial can be a real turnon too.

I enjoy a big load shot just about anywhere, especuially when I'm ready to watch it

I've only found one guy that would taste his own come after cumming on me/ HE's very special and gets special treatment from Autumn