I have a question

Big load: so you're saying if you couldnt have a decent sex life you wouldn't be able to love someone?

When I consider the matter, I realize that size doesn't matter a whole lot to me. I mean, if I'm going to be on bottom, it may a bit, but that's only because I don't do it often. But as a measure of the kind of guy I'm dealing with....nah, that doesn't matter at all. In fact, I talked to a dude I like that's hung bigger than me, found out thru chat, but wasn't my goal to find out. He just mentioned it on the third conversation because we talked about getting together and such. I liked him considerably before ever knowing that he's hung.

On the flip side, I dated a dude that had some issues with his size and dating me (some rumor about black dudes and huge dicks). I was way more into him than to care about the size he was (about 6" long and 4 thick). It caused some minor rifts with us, but as I liked him a whole lot, I found us a way thru it.

Volt: I treat smaller guys with GREAT respect. The guy on 28 Days Later did a nude scene openly and I thought that took a lot of guts.

People who are smaller, I see them as being able to live life happily without sexuality as the #1 factor, and that is awsome. People who are happy with who they are ... just seeing them gives me strength to accept myself.

Now i just can't stand guys who walk around and act like they are just the most important people on earth. I'm sure a huge majority of people on this forum are quite small, or not anything special at all, they just signed up for the sake of self comfort.

Hmm...interesting...definitely interesting point Volt

No, not in a marital way. I can love many people, but to be in love is another matter. Don't get me wrong, I don't represent all or even most women. I'm just me. Most women COULD have a decent sex life with men of any size. Women have most of our nerve endings around the opening of the vagina, and the g-spot is only about 2 to 3 inches in, so being smaller to average in size is not a prohibitive factor in being able to give a woman an orgasm! Also, many (if not most) women prefer oral stimualtion to penetration, for the purpose of orgasm, many women don't climax from insertion anyway. They like penetration for the emotional closeness with their partner, but often need oral to get off. Everyone has different tastes and different needs, but I think it is important to consider being compatible sexually when choosing a life partner. Could you be happy never having an orgasm from your partner? If you answer "yes", I don't believe you.

missvelvet03:
i second! thanks, mz, for always saying things i can't figure out quite how to articulate ;-) i get tired of feeling like a terrible person just because size is a factor in who i'm attracted to... not the sole factor, but a significant one.

missv

MissV,

Glad to see you posting here, please come back often! There are a great bunch of women who post here regularly, and those we don't see very often. Your input would be most welcome.

Is it me or are all the women of lpsg beautiful?

LapDog :P

Yes they/we are. Thanks LD! :blush:

You know...he's right. They are all fine on here. :)

Miss Velvet, your ava is really breathtaking, we don't see enough of you around!

Texass, your pics sizzle! How is it so many gorgeous women have found there way here? Texas has alwys been know for beautiful women, and you prove them right again.

i admire your honesty :)

just a question though, what if you fell in love with a guy who only had a 4" erect penis? Would you dump him because he wasnt hung?
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i don't think i could fall in love with a guy. I like both sexes but prefer men for sex...emotionally, i will always connect love with women. So, does size matter with a woman? yes--i like everything big (you interpret).

i don't think i could fall in love with a guy. I like both sexes but prefer men for sex...emotionally, i will always connect love with women. So, does size matter with a woman? yes--i like everything big (you interpret).
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I wish someone could explain this to me. I really don't understand. How could a guy prefer sex with a man. but prefer emotionally to be with a woman. I have read several posts that indicate that. Are guys just fuck buddies and that is all?

I wish someone could explain this to me. I really don't understand. How could a guy prefer sex with a man. but prefer emotionally to be with a woman. I have read several posts that indicate that. Are guys just fuck buddies and that is all?
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Of course not.
People are all different. Preferences are just that.
It does not have to resonate with you.
If you don't feel that way, that is why you don't understand it.
But that said, if you take a minute to consider that each person is an individual,
you will probably understand how much you can learn from other ways of thinking. :)

Of course not.
People are all different. Preferences are just that.
It does not have to resonate with you.
If you don't feel that way, that is why you don't understand it.
But that said, if you take a minute to consider that each person is an individual,
you will probably understand how much you can learn from other ways of thinking. :)
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i may understand better than I thought. I just like being with guys as well emotionally. But I can understand. But to me without an emotional attachment, someone it just a fuckbuddy

Fuckbuddy isn't always such a bad thing either. I've had great respect for some of mine, it just all depends on where you're at at the time. For whatever reason, I have found that many bisexual people prefer a love realtionship with one gender more than the other, even though they enjoy sex with both. Different strokes....