Jack off Buddies

Well said.
I keep trying to explain that to my good looking well hung neighbor.

Somehow, he thinks it's sexual. HMMM???

Thanx PonyPete i agree completely im a straight teen and i completely agree with everything u said, especially that sneaky feeling. Theres a friend who randomly might giv me a msg askin if i want to come over, its great to have sum1 2 talk 2 bout sex, concerns and get up 2 some mischief with. At my birthday/ sleepover type party a few years ago we watching American Pie 2 and my friends( whom are all "really HOT!!" as my friend ash says) started askin 4 tissues and there was me with no idea what was goin on then they put the lesbian scene on loop made sum jerk off jokes( "i bet ur gettin off watchin me have bat arn't you?" etc.) and we all started jerking off(under sleeping bags unfortunatley). That was my first sort of circle jerk experience, my frend who has now slept with two of them tells me they were both "big boys". Unfortunatley they both got scholarships 2 sporting highschools for thier senior years' so i'll never find out.

I only did it once with a friend, we both had our 'selves' covered up with cushions and did it simply because we both needed to get off, were bored since we were the only ones out and I had a porno he wanted to see. Lasted about 20 minutes I think...

Same thing here, its difficult to just say that kind of thing.

I think atleast one of my friends would give it a go, but its a mutual feeling of "Well, what if he thinks I'm a perv?" creates a barrier, I recently managed to lower that barrier a bit, but, still.

Its silly really, life is full of these barriers that we create ourselves...

This is kinda funny, because in my problem my initial "What if he thinks I'm a perv?" barrier was with a guy who, when we were seven, would always stare at my dick when I pissed. Eventually, I realized, "Hey, it isn't such a problem."

Since we didn't have any porno, we'd do a sexy version of those old camp fire ghost stories where one guy will begin the story, then after a few minutes pass it to the guy to the left. Only our stories were sexual fantasies.

Unfortunatley this is the main problem with jerk off buddies sometimes it will streghthen a friendship but it can just as eaisily damage one. It can't be something out of the blue you bring up its usually best if u ease into sexual based conversations and ask whilst u both are watching a porno because chances are the other guy will want to jack off. Good Luck!

lighthouse: I was in a bookstore near Albany, NY once and two guys who were obviously co-workers at a hotel (similar porter / doorman uniforms) came in together, bought tokens from the clerk, and went into separate booths. Clearly it was part of their after-work schedule to stop at the bookstore and crank one out.

My str8 budddy & I used to hang out in my hot tub drinking beer in the afternoons. One time we were both just kind of staring out into space, real relaxed. My buddy said, " What are you thinkng about. "Oh nothing really" i replied. Stand up he said. I had a boner of course and he knew it. "We're both sitting here secretly stroking our cocks under the water. Let's just come clean and do it together."

Well, the next few years were lots of fun until he moved to manhattan to get married.

We're still best friends.

I had two buddies and a cousin with whom I would jack off as a teen. We were (and still are) all straight, but it was more of a safe outlet for hormones gone wild. We trusted each other and it wasn't about intimacy as much as bonding and experimenting, seeing what our bodies could do and wanting to know that being horny 24-7 was normal. We would even jerk-off each other's cocks, which was pretty wild. We are all grown and married now, but I must say, I miss it sometimes. I found it to be a very masculaine, affirming experience. A celebration of what it is to have a cock.

[quote=hungteen02,Jan 7 2005, 08:46 PM]
How great that you were able to express yourself so eloquently. MOre than anything, it is important that each person int he group trusts the other, and the nature of the jerking is clear. If it is just blowing off steam, so be it. If it is more than that, and that is okay, then away you go. If it starts to feel awkward, thenn stop.

With my buddies, it became almost an unspoken thing that we would jerk off during sleep overs, swims (one had a pool), pretty much any time.
:P

With cousin, he caught sight of my erection one time while I thought I was privately playing with myself in his room, and he asked to play with it. It was all cool and felt great to have attention and admiration from an older cousin.

My friend Scott and I jerked each other once. His dick was tiny, but it was still hot to know another dude had his hand on my pole and sac. I blew my load all over his leg, though!

i remember i had a jack off buddy for awhile. it was around 7th grade when we discussed masturbation and agreed to try it with each other. it was probably one of the most erotic things i've ever experienced. it lasted until 10th grade... or around then. i loved it. i would do it again by all means, but you just have to be sure when it comes to discussing it to a person and who it is. but i heed warning towards it. it can kinda freak people out. so be careful.

[quote=hungteen02,Jan 8 2005, 04:07 AM]
In private, for sure. With my buddies, if it was during day, our parents were at work, and we could skinny dip at my friend's house and play with each other in the pool. (He had a fence around his yard.) If it was a sleep over, we would play a lot of Truth or Dare while the folks were asleep.

With my cousin, it was in his room in the basement. I don't know how well things would have gone over if we have been jerking each other off in private.
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Thats just how I feel. It'd be cool to have a fun bonding thing like that. In fact this whole thread is really awesome - just knowing that so many other ppl are or have been in the same situation, and felt nervous about approaching someone- is a good to hear.
Speaking of which, are there any more guys who can talk about how they initiated it?
I'm thinking theres no guaranteed safe way to avoid the chance of freaking someone out by asking, but the experience/advice still helps.

I have wanted to do this, but i neva have. To be honest, i dont think my friends seem the type. However, i can think of one, but i dont speak to him much no more... Atleast you guys enjoy it. And yeh, this is a good topic!