Jack off Buddies

Thats just how I feel. It'd be cool to have a fun bonding thing like that. In fact this whole thread is really awesome - just knowing that so many other ppl are or have been in the same situation, and felt nervous about approaching someone- is a good to hear.
Speaking of which, are there any more guys who can talk about how they initiated it?
I'm thinking theres no guaranteed safe way to avoid the chance of freaking someone out by asking, but the experience/advice still helps.
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I think thats the thing about this, and that is that I rekon quite a lot of guys are interested in it, but its the self imposed barriers that make everything so diffiult... "what if he thinks Im a perv?" sets in...

*sigh*
And ofcourse the people who have had a friend like this, the mutual masturbation will come around in unique ways for different people ,I dont think there is a particular way to bring this sort of thing up, you just have to know that person and slowly steer things around.

Ive been trying it for while, and t appears to be working.

I did this in high school, with a pal.
It always began with watching straight porn.
We would begin shyly, blocking view with pillows....
but as each of us would near climax, the pillows would be thrown aside.

We did this 7 or 8 times over those years,
and we continued the pretense of the pillows and the
"we wont ever do *that* again" type stuff afterward, every time
we did it.

Interestingly, we never touched eachother...somehow that would
have been over the line.
We were both in denial about being gay at that time.
In fact, this was the only real guy/guy experience i had in high school.

remotehypnosis: Its great there are so many open minded people on this website! :D Keep it up!

James.

First time I did it? Well, we were talking about girls we like, we all got boners, I said I had to go jack off, a friend asked what the big deal was; we're all guys here. And from there we jacked off.

Anyone in here ever Jacked with another while in the steam room?

No but I think I would find that really uncomfortable, I believe it should just be with someone you are really good friends and are comfortable with. And you both decide not to hide from eachother.

Yeah...Would love to do this w/someone comfortable w/it...I did it once w/a friend - and it happened after clubbing one night...I think we were both pretty horny after partying and we did that show me yours and I will show you mine kind of thing...One thing led to another and he wanted me to jack him off...And I could tell he was a little uncomfortable but he definitely was enjoying it...After it was over - he was like we were drunk and it didn't mean anything...But after that we talked on the phone but never really hung out again...He started thinking about getting religious and then moved away...So I personally didn't get a good experience...But I do have another friend that I think wants me to do something like that...He is consistently trying to get to come over his house and hang and even crash over if it gets too late...Thinking about taking him up on his offer this week - starting to get curious as what is he thinking about...

Don't think I would want to do that in a steam room...Something about that just doesn't seem sanitary...

Don't think I would want to do that in a steam room...Something about that just doesn't seem sanitary...
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I've played with my dick in the steam room while others did the same but not really full out jerking off. It's more of a show and tell thing. I walk in, other guys have their hands over their cocks, I know something is up. So I'll give my dick a tug and some heavy adjusting before I sit down. Then, I'll just casually play with my balls and let the others see. Before you know it, everybody's got their boner on display. It's funny how easy it is to get things started.

With my friend, it started out with playing with each other. He was a really cute guy with long hair and a gorgeous cock. It would get so incredibly hard. After doing it several times a month for a while, I stepped it up to oral, which is what I'd wanted to do all along. The summer between Sophomore and Junior years in H.S. I sucked him off almost every night, and all over town. My favorite was in some houses that were being built. His family moved away not long after that and I"ve never really got over it. I can still taste and smell him... He was so hot. I know he lives in California and has been married a couple of times, but we haven't talked since then. I'd be perfectly happy picking up just where we stopped. I've had quite a few good cocks since then, but none quite as perfect as his.

has anyone had a circle jerk experience with a few guys gettin into it?

I've been jerkin off since I was 12, and I learned from a friend. He taught me by showing me. Then it became mutual masturbation. After he taught, like, a month later, he asked if I wanted to jerk him off while he jerked me off. I said "shure". I think that, if you wanna try it, be direct and don't beat around the bush (no pun intended). Just be all "Hey, have you ever jerked off with another dude before?" and take it from there. To any and all who have yet to jerk off with a friend and want to, good luck!

Well, it's easier to set the mood. One thing is to have a sleepover (under the rationalization of studying for a final, SAT, or equally life-altering test) and start talking about girls you like or watching something sexy. (In the 90s, the show of choice was Baywatch.) When he says he has to go jack off, you're in. Say that you have to too, and since there's only one bathroom and you're both guys . . . (Note: This method requires that one, you both have similar classes, and two, you only have one bathroom.)

As an adult, porn's probably the easiest way to set it up.

Well i never have but the topic has come up a few times. When i still hung around with them, my "friends" and I came close to, but didnt. Im not totally opposed to it, but it's not on my Top-Priority list. Seems like it could be fun in a way.

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In private, for sure. With my buddies, if it was during day, our parents were at work, and we could skinny dip at my friend's house and play with each other in the pool. (He had a fence around his yard.) If it was a sleep over, we would play a lot of Truth or Dare while the folks were asleep.

With my cousin, it was in his room in the basement. I don't know how well things would have gone over if we have been jerking each other off in private.
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Wow, nice grammar there, self. What I meant to say is, I don't know how things would have gone over if we had been jerking each other off in public.
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