Straight Guys Who Experiment With Gay Guys

OK, I gotta' ask? "Dave Rhodes?" The one in L.A.? Magazine editor? Inquiring minds want to know. :huh:

OK, I gotta' ask? "Dave Rhodes?" The one in L.A.? Magazine editor? Inquiring minds want to know. :huh:
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Famous for his MAKE.MONEY.FAST chain letter, wherein you send six people $1 each, delete the name on the top, put your name on the bottom, and forwarded it to about 200 newsgroups. Since then, similar moneymaking scams have all been called MMF.

Why would anyone post their name and address in a scam which thousands of people are going to see? The mind boggles.

OK, I'm a Kinsey 5, but I consider myself 100% homosexual. I guess I am "Straight curious" as well, so I can certainly accept that just because a man has had sexual contact with other men, even anal intercourse or fellatio, does not mean he is bi-sexual.

Or, maybe I am bi-sexual and just in denial. Or maybe not bi-sexual but certainly not Gay, since I am a Kinsey 5 and not a 6.

That and a six pack. :D

Yeah, we've all heard the old joke. Actually, the idea of only having sex with males xor females -- I don't mean one person, but just males xor females -- is a fairly novel idea, which seems to have evolved in the 19th century. In that way, Robert Mugabe is right in saying that homosexuality is a European import. But he's also wrong in another way, in that attitudes toward same-sex couples vary quite a bit cross-culturally, but very few cultures actually forbid it under all circumstances.

I guess this is an appropriate thread for one of my infrequent posts. I am straight. I have had sex with two men. Does having sex with two men mean that I should really consider myself to be bi? Not at all. I am sexually attracted to women, not men. I am open minded and have friends of various sexual orientations. The men I had sex with are two men that I consider friends. I am like many straight men. I had a natural curiosity - "What is it like?" I would only feel comfortable satisfying that curiosity with someone that I knew and trusted, not a stranger. Did I enjoy the sex? Well yeah, I did. My dick was skillfully manipulated by two men who had experience in dick manipulation. I discovered what sensations the stimulation of my prostate could produce. Whats not to like? The taste of dick didnt do much for me, but I wasnt repelled by it and I had decided earlier on that I didnt want to draw boundaries in the experiment and it seemed only right to try to return some of the pleasure that they had given me. So I had a one time experience with gay sex. I dont regret and my curiosity has been satisfied. The two men are still my friends. I still dont feel sexual attraction to men . I dont anticipate in repeating the experience. So can a straight man experience sex with another man and remain straight? Absolutely.

I think the main problem is our seeming inability to to avoid labeling a "secxual esperiecne" whether hetero, or bi or whatever. We're at root sexual beings. How that plays out is immaterial. What really excites me are the guys are who willing to t ake the risk to find out what it's like. And then make up there mind. It has nothing to do with forfeiting your oreintatoink its gout wanting to explore another side of you. Taht's all. Sone guys once is enough. Others continue to enjoy although are dpredomindantly 'straight". It's all good as long as it doesn't cause guilt, andall that shit.. i'ts all good.

Happy Election Day, folks. I'm chilling at home a little later than usual this morning, waiting to vote then I'm off to the west coast for the remainder of the week.

This is not a topic that I'd contribute to, in general, but it's generated a few interesting comments. The post that initiated this topic implied that well hung men are more likely to “whip it out” and Topspinman asked if it were “pure horniness” or a “love of sharing”. He then asked others to share their experiences.

Topspinman, I'm on record as believing penis size has nothing whatsoever to do with sexuality. Have I ever “whipped it out”? Yes, I admit that I have, on occasion, done that. When I was younger and with some guys and alcohol was usually involved. Once, I did it quite purposely to intimidate my Father-in-Law. On this subject I only want to say that I’ve seen my share of guys “whip it out” who didn’t have much to “whip” so while there may be a link between alcohol and (stupid young) men exposing themselves it has nothing to do with penis size.

On the subject of “horniness” or “sharing”, I can tell you, Topspin, that I never exposed myself with the intent of having sex with another man. Further, I’m not attracted to men nor have I felt any desire or curiosity about being with men in a sexual manner. Yes, there have been opportunities and I receive propositions from time to time. I’m simply not interested.

I have one or two more things to say. I agree with those who frown on labels and in this case would rather not be named gay, bi or straight regardless of their relationships and actions. On the other hand those men who’ve had sexual relations with other men must admit to the attraction! I don’t care if the attraction is because of another man’s eyes or his dick or merely a curiosity for what hasn’t been experienced, it’s still an attraction. I’m attracted to women. It doesn’t matter why. I am. Lastly, regarding closeted men who engage in same sex relations while publicly denouncing the same: Morons will be morons.

On that note, it’s time to vote.

Very interesting thread!

I've never been one for hard and fast labels either. Certainly I fooled around with a few guys in their teens whom I now consider to be 'straight'. And I do know some guys who are 'mostly straight' but are willing to engage in some fooling around now and again of the situation is right. The size of one's dick doesn't seem to make much difference here in my opinion.

Certainly my having a 'big one' doesn't make me more inclined to receive a casual hand-job or blow-job from a woman.

I have had sex many times with str8 men. I dont think it has anything to do with being hung at all. i think a lot of str8 men think their cocks are big when it is not anyway.

just my input... :D

So in most cases... what are you drinking before the well hung guy decides to pull out his pole?

Well, my theory is that most straight guys are just put off by anal, more specifically being on the receptive end of anal rather than the insertive. (Some straight guys do have anal with women, but it's fairly taboo to discuss. However, the idea of the receptive end, well . . . Notice all the phraseology like "I got fucked!" "Fuck you!" etc.)

dayne: I think a str8 guy with a big dick might be more willing to experiment if he is confident he has a big dick. Being insecure about your dick size would cause someone to keep it in their pants longer I think. When I was insecure about my sexuality, I was at a river skinnydipping. A gay guy started to grab my dick saying it was huge. I took off because it freaked me out, but I wondered if he was just saying that to get me or whether it really was big. Later I asked a gay guy I knew and trusted, if he would tell me if I really had a big dick. I then dropped my shorts and started jacking off. He gave me a big smile and told me I had nothing to worry about! I then zipped them up. He wouldn't qualify "nothing to worry about" but from the way he was smiling I got the the message it wasn't average. It made the idea of experimenting easier because I knew I didn't have to worry about size when another guy saw it.

What a load of crap that a guy is gay if he experiments a couple of times. We are a society of consumers. How would you know you like something if you don't try it. If you do try and it sucks, maybe that person just wasn't good. This is a major decision. For some people it would make sense to try again and be sure.

I don't think life needs to be constantly labeled into a category.

Live it. Don't waste your time categorizing.

Those who do live it up will get the big dicks while you're only thinking about them...

dayne: [quote=bkt,Dec 1 2004, 01:27 AM]
I don't think life needs to be constantly labeled into a category.

Live it. Don't waste your time categorizing.

Those who do live it up will get the big dicks while you're only thinking about them...
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