Fucking tired of only getting to use first few inc

OK , all of us big guys are always faced with the fuck/suck dilemma. I don't care if you are gay or straight, this problem happens to all of us.

So instead of your usual relase, where you know how to handle your own dick, you have a favirote lube, and you pick out your favirote porno. I offer you these possible sexual problems I have observed when I attempt sex.

Problem A: :wub: Potential Sexual partner is greedy at the size of your dick, and enters the sexual situation, knowing well off they wont be able to fit you in there mouth or vagina/ass. But attempt it anyway.

Problem B: When oral sex is attempted, they barely get the head in, but rather then feel warm lips and tounge, all you get is some beaver carving on your pole. Or they are to frightned to even try, so stupidly keep banging it against there chin. :P

Problem C: :blink: Assuming we are all gentlemen, and take the time to loosen our partners up to accomidate our large size, ,they want us to fuck them. And although you were able to get a few fingers in before, there ass goes into shock and tightens, the second you push against the hole.

Problem D: :( So you got the head in, but it ain't taken no more. Your partner is whining for you to fuck 'em, but there ass just wont relax. So as you are trying, more and more lube, and trying to stay hard enough to fuck, they wont keep there ass in one place.
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Problem E: Fuck, I cant feel my dick anymore. Being single, I take the side of using condoms. Between how tight the rubber is wrapped on you, and there way too tight, tense ass, you relize, you cant feel any sensations anymore.

The very rare Problem F: :o Ok, all of sudden, your partner nears there orgasm, the hole opens up, you go in for the deep dive, and BOOM, they have this intense orgasm all over the place. But now that your hard again and finnaly all the way in, they want you to pull out.

if problem F has happened you propably end up in Problem G: :wacko: They want to finish you off, by either bobing on your cockhead like there in an apple contest, or they get lazy and offer you the roughist handjob in your life. Now I do forgive them a little on this one, if they have never dealt with a large guy before, they may not understand how to handle a big dick with large balls. So you end up just jacking yourself off while they make wierd eyes at you till you shoot.


Alternate ending to problem G: They go to sleep, or leave, and you find yourself back with a porno, some lube and a towel again.

:wub:

Yes there is a lot to be said for only having 8"!

Franky

How big is that monster, islandfoz?

Hey, nothing wrong with "only" 8 inches! I don't get half the grief and all the pleasure.

Sorted.

islandfoz funny stuff...sad, but true stuff, nonetheless funny and i am sorry cos i know you are serious, but we have all been there (even those only 8 inches). I am 8x8 by the by

The problems that arise from being big are such that you can't really do anything about it, you can't change your physical nature (with surgery as an exception, but I wouldn't go there) It sounds harsh but you're just going to have to deal with it and live with the consequences of having a large penis. Try embracing the positive aspects of it a little, bit, will all bad things there comes some good things.

"Assuming we are all gentlemen"? I didn't know only gay men had anal.

Well, I guess it could apply to women too, although I don't know how many women are eager to take a huge guy anally. Since we don't have prostate glands, we don't get the same "payoff" for it.

I know a number of women, both online and in real life, who are fully orgasmic from anal sex. The anus is close to enough of a woman's sensitive erogenous genital structures that there is still some payoff for her. The roots of the clitoris are in that area, for example.

Myself, no woman has ever offered me anal access.

Well I am glad I got some people to talk about this. Because it's not the kind of thing you can just bring up at the dinner table.
I wrote that email the night after , once again I was dumped because of them saying we were sexually imcompatible. what they were really saying was, "I hate the fact that your so big, you can't even use it for sex." A night prior to that, we had about our 4th attempt at failed sex. Obviously I was able to oral satisfy them, but for myself was eventually left to my own jerk off. The oral had failed, the anal had failed, and they had given up trying to jerk me because I am so thick, they could barely grip it, and when they did, it felt like they were trying to pull it off of me. In ended in a shared silence. Some staring at the wall, then they got out of bed, got dressed, and said they had to go, and ran out the door. I just sat in bed, trying to figure out what I had done. Never even said a word.

I have been checking back the past few days to see if anyone had responded yet. Find it intresting, the diffrent opinions about it so far. Still been thinking about it. I am sure all of you other guys, who have been shut down like that during sex, have had to take a little time to get back in the game again. Makes you constantly fearfull, that the bad situation will just keep repeating themselves like a Nightmere on Elm Street sequal. I will keep checking back to see what others have to say. So thank you so much.

To the guy who said "having a large penis is a consequence you have to live with". All I can say is, I hope you don't think of it as a consequence. I understand it is a gift, I guess. But just find the activity of sex a painfull expierence.

To the guy who asked how big is it. Well I always thought I was about 8x 6.5, becuase I had an ex that said he was 7x5 and I thought I was about an inch longer and and inch and half thicker. But later on, I was telling a good friend about my sexual problems, and he insisted on measuring. So the Official SIZe is: 9"x7",hard, with very large balls, 5"x5" when flacid, but my balls hang about 2 inches past my dickhead when soft.

Hmmm, so you speak Hebrew (thought it was only written these days, but I could be wrong) ? Nice... You can't happen to be Jewish, too? I think God toyed with humanity and put a massive percentage of big dicks on Jewish and Italian guys, in my experience.


Oh, and by the way. I'd N E V E R give up on a 9x7. it's called "fingering for a while, and using lots of lube and patience". Nothing hits a prostate right like a big ol' knob like that. Mmmmmmmm.

Will we be treated to a revealing gallery entry or an avatar?

islandfoz,

thank you for sharing the problems. i had to show my boyfriend that, he agreed with you on those claims and we got a good chuckle out of it. he's experienced the awkwardness of being intimate with someone only for it end up pointless and him feeling bad about himself afterwards. i'm currently experiencing his fear of that stuff right now. his fear of me rejecting him because of his size almost ruined our relationship because i didn't know that was what was keeping him from being intimate with me. we're still working on it.....not only physcially, but the trust it requires to maintain any relationship. :)

be well...
~frisky

The word consequence dosn't neccesarily have a negative connotation(sp?)

Islandofoz, I have said before and I will now say more firmly- it is important to find partners who WANT what we have to offer. Yes, I wish we lived in Utopia where we could just choose our mates based on personality alone, but for some of us it is simply not in our best interest.

While you're having all these problems with rejection, believe me, there are men (and women) who would give anything to find someone with your attributes! It certainly cuts down your available options to consider the physical and emotional aspects, but I feel sure that the healthiest relationships are ones where both things come together.

Since you've already run into problems, apparently more than once, I'd think it would be fair to mention your size before you actually get intimate and see what reaction your prospective partner has. You may be able to aviod a potentially unhappy experience, or if you're luckier, arouse some interest!

Madam, you're always about compatability. I understand your point completely, and I understand that sexual incompatability has been a huge problem for you. Since we don't live in a Utopia where we can find someone that can fit ALL our requirements don't you think there has to be some kind of compromise when hooking up with someone? If we all waited for the perfect person to coem along and never had to deal with some incompatabilities wouldn't we be searching forever?