Comfort Level Showing Dick to Other Men?

It doesn't bother me at all except when they feel that my friendliness is an open invitation to grab/grope me...especially in nude situations ie: Shower/locker rooms or nude beaches. One time while at a nude beach I was laying out dozing off when I heard someone set up by me. I looked over and it was an older gentlemen. He was friendly and very talkative. We talked for awhile then I stated dozing off again when he reached over and started stroking me (I had gotten erect in my relaxed stated). At first I wasn't sure what do. I opened my eyes and looked at him. He was looking right at me slowly stroking me. It felt good but it was uninvited. I asked him why he felt it was ok to just start stroking me. He smiled and told me to relax. I sat up which made me slip out of his grip. I looked around and noone was within 50 feet or so. He tried to grab me again. I stood up and picked up my towel. He grabbed his towel and ran. I walked until I was closer to crowd and enjoyed the rest of the afternoon. I don't mind comparing or talking matter of fact but please don't touch. :blink:

If another guy gets a hardon from looking at my cock hey all men get turned on by all different things but I think all men see other mens cocks and think I wish I was that big or dam love to have his balls that is how all men are gay or str8

hungteen17: im 17 and go out of my way to let guys see my 6" soft cock. like in the lockeroom i'll walk around naked whenever possible. or in the bathrooms i'll stand away from the urinal so my cock is easier to see.

when i am at the urinal and i nottice a guy looking at my 5inch flacid i pull my hand away so my dick is just haning there. some times i get a comment other times they just look away

Interesting topic. I recall my first real exposure which happened at the time of my being processed into the Military. Here we were about 110 of us being examined. Most of the time we had a terry towel around our bodies, but often we had to drop the towel for the various procedures, especially the turn the head and cough check for ruptures in the area of the balls.

Then, on to boot camp. Here for ten weeks we took community showers with the entire company. One large tiled shower room with many, many shower heads. No time to be modest. Hang up the towel and proceed into the shower, soap up and rinse off and get out and dry off.

Once boot camp was over on to a duty station. Not really concerned about showing dick anymore. It had become a daily routine. Back then the military did not have females on ships. We all enjoyed the freedom of being in the shower area and getting clean. Many, many stores can be told about the showers and the wet down/soap up/rinse down routine. Many, many times the soap up time took extra time. Behind plastic shower curtains most of us knew what was going on.

Since these experiences I have never had a real concern about showing dick.

buffstraighthorny: I feel that men should feel free round otha men. i mean my jock buddies and even most of guys i knew just walked around, wanked etc. naked. all men have dicks. no big woop.

If someone asked me to show them...I would.

I think gay guys in general would feel abit less comfortable about being nude and showing their dicks though because if you are attracted to the other guys, you are looking at it as a potential mate..so there is that pressure. Its just as if you were a straight guy and you were showing it to a female.

drrionelli: I will always remember the time that my then-girlfriend and I had taken her older son to a gym to enroll in a self-defense class. Well, the younger son, who was all of about 4 years old at the time, had to go to the bathroom. The bathroom was, of course, in the locker/shower room area. As I was taking him through, he saw some naked guys. The look on his face was so perplexed that it was cute! He looked up at me and said, with the innocence of youth, "Why are those men naked?" :huh: I told him that they were taking showers, just like he did at home. And he simply said, "Oh. Did they get dirty and sweaty?" I explained that they had, and he was fine with that. He saw nothing wrong with it, because I made nothing out to be wrong with it, because, indeed, there was nothing wrong with it.

As has been pointed out, some social patterns are hard to unlearn. There's nothing wrong with modesty regarding our bodies UNTIL it becomes shame about our bodies.

We all have the bodies we have, and they are remarkably more similar than different. It's safe to say that when people see yours unclad, they're not as surprised as you might think.

everyone prety much knows about my huge penis from the guys that talk about it from the locker room. People in my school actually ask to see it. Including one of my teachers. I am more then happy to wip it out and slap it down on their desk of what ever. One time I was almost supended for pulling it out in the library to show some one. But when I got up the the office I put it up on the principles desk and he undertood why I would want to show off and just gave me a detention.

Many kids adults and teachers try to sneek a peack at the urininal so when I am done I leave it out and give them a good look. Usually the teachers denie wanting to see it but will glance down anyway.

dimwit: Although I question this post's legitimacy, I'll risk giving it enough credit to give a reminder of our indecency laws. A male's penis is NOT to be shown in public, except at the urinal during urination. In privacy, with the consent of another person(s), sure, go ahead and pull out for viewing if you like.

Also, while we're on the subject -- as for the pulling out to 'put' on the principle's desk, no school administrator worth his/her salt, would ever permit such a thing. The school's atmosphere enabling you to feel free to do such a thing is deplorable.

Please tell us your post is a totally fabricated story to hopefully titillate the reader.
I had rather not lower my respect for our school system.

I think my comfort level of showing my dick to other men is based pretty much on the situation and the comfort level around it. I personally would have no problem with showing to curious parties, however it would not be something that I could to to just anyone at anytime. When you are larger people are obviously interested, much more than you'd think. I say show if you want. I sure don't mind.

Today I had a neat experience at the gym that relates to the original topic.

A cute guy about my age (early 30's) and I ended up in the locker room at the same time. It's a small, mostly hetero older men crowd and a small but very nice gym. We had lockers in the same row and made brief eye contact while undressing. I knew he was gay but I wear a gold band on my ring finger (I have a partner who also wears one) so I'm sure he thought I was straight.

I headed to the showers and this cute hung guy came in about a minute later. We still hadn't said anything to each other at this point. I took a quick rinse and went for a sit in the sauna. When I came out after about 5 minutes, he was still in the shower and sported a halfie. I thought of how funny this was--playing this peek a boo game! I only know of about two other gay guys at this gym so I decided to play along and began to soap myself up to half hard or more.

He shut off his shower and headed into the steam room. Now I thought, I've got to meet this guy, because this is so silly. So, I entered the steam room and sat down beside him and said,
"Nice cock, " with a laugh. We exchanged names and I mentioned how I didn't think there were many other gay guys at the gym and I explained my ring (he thought I was married).

We were both totally hard at this point and just sat back in the steam next to each other laughing, chatting and stroking ourselves a bit with a couple of playful strokes of each other, comparing size, etc. The thing was that it wasn't really sexual and we weren't trying to get off. It was nice to be in this kind of situation where there was no expectation of sex. It was just a couple guys hanging out naked with erections and not being self conscious about it.

We headed to the showers half hard after about 10 minutes and then went on our separate ways. I have a lot of great gay friends but can't imagine having this same kind of intimate interaction with them. It was really unique and poignant, however short lived!

Thanks for helping me relive many, many similar scenes at college work-out areas, YMCA and other gyms, boymercury. I've found anywhere nude guys get together, interesting events happen!

Care to elaborate? I'd be interested in hearing some of your stories...

dimwit: Although I question this post's legitimacy, I'll risk giving it enough credit to give a reminder of our indecency laws. A male's penis is NOT to be shown in public, except at the urinal during urination. In privacy, with the consent of another person(s), sure, go ahead and pull out for viewing if you like.

Also, while we're on the subject -- as for the pulling out to 'put' on the principle's desk, no school administrator worth his/her salt, would ever permit such a thing. The school's atmosphere enabling you to feel free to do such a thing is deplorable.

Please tell us your post is a totally fabricated story to hopefully titillate the reader.
I had rather not lower my respect for our school system.
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Sorry, I completely for got to mention I was in alternative. I wasnt kiked out of my old school but when I moved from Virginia the public school wouldnt give me my deploma on time but they set up an arangment so I could go to alternative. In these kinds of schools kids wipin it out and students not learning a thing are common events.