Question for hung guys

michaelwith11: I agree with some of the other posters. Several years ago, I met a woman with whom I later became intimate. (We're still close friends, but not in a romance.) The first few times I saw here, she was in either business clothes or something else not at all revealing. One day I happened to see her in something more form-fitting and was astounded by her body (I'll just admit it: I'm a breast man.) Then when we finally got together, we both had interesting body features to enjoy. :)

Feeling nostalgic,

Michael

Do you and your swinging phallic meat ver make it to Western PA?

You could swing by Ohio on the way back. Ohio is a swing state, y'know!

NelsonMuntz84: This must be the female equivelent to that music video... show girls a big cock and there all after it :P ^_^ so easily pleased!

OneEyedCat: [quote=alysen6,Oct 4 2004, 11:41 PM]
Question for hung guys:

If you meet a girl you get along with and are attracted to, and you start a relationship, how would you feel to know that one of the most attractive features to her is your large size?

-- It is a major turn on when a woman enjoys my cock in addition to all the other factors that go into a relationship. Obviously, for casual sex it does not matter as much (assuming they don't freak out on it)

In other words, does it turn you on to have a girl you really like adore your big dick a LOT, or would you feel like it detracts from the other parts of you?

I love it but I think a lot of us have had experiences where we feel reduced to just our cocks ie "I dated you because of your big cock" etc.


OEC

OneEyedCat:

Aly

I'd like to think that chicks are attracted to me because of my appearance, personality, body and bevhavior rather than solely because of my dick size. It isn't a turn on when chicks are attracted solely to my dick size and I don't usually date chicks who are. That said when a chick gets my tackle out she might turn and run because of my dick size and in some ways that's even worse! Chicks may feel the same way when a guy is solely attracted them because of the size of their tits or willingness to jump in the sack.

Good question.

In my 20s it turned me on when I met a gf who was a size queen and adored my tool alot. But after a few months the relationship grew stale. It finally ended because it wasn't based on much more than physical attraction.

SG

Arturo: Hi there Aly.
I'm a new member and I seize this opportunity to join the chit-chat.
To answer your question, I wouldn't like the idea much. As it happens, I'm sometimes shy about the endowment question as it is. Let's say that it can be a bit embarassing for an intimate part of you to become the centre of interest(be it for a few minutes...) When I was 18 and quite unexperienced, I used to baulk at the idea of disclosing my penis too openly the first times, wondered if it would pass the test as it were. Now at 32, I'm not that concerned anymore mainly because my girlfriends have never really showed much more than a passing interest. But also because I agree that in long term relationships, trust and understanding(and sometimes patience:)!) weigh so much more in the balance.
As for being primarily attracted to someone on the basis of a physical attribute, I really don't see that it would make you shallow or unsensitive. It certainly does not mean that you're not capable of love and warmth. We may talk at lengths about penis and bra size, but we all know that those subjects have little or nothing to do with our deeper human needs.
Sorry if I was a little long-winded about this, first-post-syndrome I suppose:)!
Take care

Welcome, Arturo! Your post is one I've made myself several times. There is nothing unusual about being initially attracted to someone for physical reasons, but if there's nothing more that develops, there's really no relationship there.

Yeah, I don't think I could live long in a relationship where the woman in question liked me only for my above-average size. I'd just feel bad because there's so much more to me than that. Though, if it were a one-time thing, or just for sex, and not a relationship, I don't think I'd mind being desired just because of that, hehe.

*nudge Jana*

Damn, sometimes it's just sooooo good to be me!

It's great. to be told "you have the most perfect penis I've ever seen" by someone who's seen a few is great. How different is that from a guy who is really into a girls chest or ass or legs?

Its simple "hell yeah"!!!