after showing my hubby some of these post here he has brought up a very interesting topic as well to add to yours if you dont mind if i add it, he ask what should be done to the people who know that the people are retarded in the sence that they dont know what they are doing ,and dont even know where they are at mind wise retarded im speaking here, and there are women an men who have sex with them. what should be done with these people who we call normal but yet do such an act to someone who can not help them self ,a dont know what is happning to them and they become pregnent and also have a retarded child, it is called rape but even normal cases of rape nothing much is done to the rapest, so in this case why should a person be fixed just because of a[ pedifile usless human being] goin around having sex with them. could go on an on here about this subject but not wanting to high jack your thread here, just think there is 2 sides to this is all. an it gets under my skin when it seems it is easy to make the abnormal go threw somthing that the normal person should know better than to do to start with.