maybe it's just me. i don't feel i'm out to prove anything to anybody
i feel really self-confident in who i am, the size of the unit, love to laugh
at myself and have fun. but all the stuff i'm into is "guy stuff" i can't
help it, it's been like that since i was 4. really there is no choice with me.
not into any of that bondage/leather scene. pretty normal guy with jeans,
t-shirts and some cowboy boots.

off-roading, river rafting, semi-extreme sports, snowboarding, i just can't get enough of it. i feel like a "guy" type, i love being a guy. as another dude said to me recently, if
you're going to be gay, why be effeminate? really i'd much rather have sex with a woman than an effeminate man. but sex with a guy who is masculine is a whole different thing to me. i do respect others who feel differently about all this.

was married and almost never did the stuff i loved because my wife hated all that stuff and i loved her at the time,
but ended up pretty miserable toward the end. always been bisexual and she knew that
before we married. stayed 99.9% monogamous through all that. left last october.

the planets are realigning now, for the better, i feel.
this site seems great for discussing all this and am getting help here already.

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