Question on growers and non-growers

Artema: I'm curious about something. I am a grower. I look not-so-big flaccid, and grow to about 8x6. I have never been able to cum twice without losing my erection between. I've had my good days where I can get it back relatively quickly, but that's not the same. I'm wondering if non-growers have a different experience here? I would guess that because it takes less bloodflow it'd be easier to maintain, or to simply get an erection to start with. Are there any insights to this? Thanks.

I'm a shower and can keep an erection thoruhg many orgasms, and can have multiple orgasms.

Hmm, interesting question, but I doubt it has anything to do with being a grower/shower. More likely it has to do with practise. I would suggest practising "edging" so you can find your cut off point and increase stamina that way. In reality, I have met very few men who can cum twice without losing their erection in between, but this is hardly a problem as it returns fairly quickly anyway! I certainly wouldn't let it bother you, as there are so many fun things to do while you're waiting...

Nice avatar, btw.

Artema: What is edging? I have practiced stopping right before, and then continuing. Sometimes I even ejaculate without an orgasm doing that. And after hearing from GottaBigOne, I bet being a shower helps at least.

P.S. Thanks about the Avatar. It is the head I used in the virtual chat world Dreamscape in 1995.

Artema, Gottabigone is just one guy- you'd need thousands to draw a conclusion like that!! He's just giving his personal experience, just like you- that's what we all do. You should never judge what is "normal" for you based on the views of any one person.

Edging, as I understand it, is pretty much jacking of to almost climaxing, then slowing down and starting over, and repeating this process as many times as possible. Not being a man, I have no insights as to ejaculation and orgasm being separate issues, I just don't know how that works.

I do want to repeat that taking a few moments to "refuel" before round two is not a problem of any kind, it is very normal! Actually, you are in good shape if it only takes a brief time, many men cannot go a second time at all!

I'd have to go with gottabigone here. But Mme. Z.'s right about edging.

I think its the edging that made it possible for me to do what i can do. also strengthening your PC muscles helps, it did for me, especially for the multiple orgasms.

Okay, I have a question for you guys. I recently had an experience with a guy who was able to have sex with me, and orgasm and cum, seven times in one day! This was over the course of about eleven hours, but pretty amazing, I'd never had a marathon like that before. Was that "multiple orgasms" or just a lot of orgasms?

Just lots of orgasms Madame Zora.
-Ant

Madame,

I've posted about this before, but since I've been off the site for awhile, I'll go again, and again, and again.

I can have real, multiple orgasms (ejaculating every time). I have been able to do this since a youth and I'm currently 24...I have not noticed a decrease as of yet.

The volume of cum subsides with each ejaculate, but I have real orgams every time and I'm NOT edging. If I cum hard the first time and ejaculate several spoon-fulls, the next time will be one spoonful, and so on.

I had always thought this was normal until my first experiences with women when they were surprised by my ability, or curse given my size.

Anyhow, this is a legitmate talent, based on genetics...just like size. I've honestly had at least a dozen orgasms in the period of 1 hour. If the girl doesn't want to continue intercourse, many times she will suck me off just to see the multiple ejaculations.

Case closed. I'm sure there are other men like me.

At about 7" long soft, extending to 11" hard, I consider myself to be both a "shower" and a grower. On more than a few occasions during intercourse or masturbation I have been able to cum twice without losing my erection. In those cases, the second orgasm comes fairly quickly after the first, so it may just be more a continuation of the first after a pause. More often, I use a technique with my gf where I lose some or all of my erection after I cum the first time, but I stay inserted in her vagina and just keep going till I get hard again (which usually takes just a few minutes). With the second erection, I will last quite a while before cumming again. My "shower" status certainly helps with this trick in that I am still long enough to stay inserted in a soft/semi-soft state.

P.S. I do not recommend that anyone try this "double dip" technique if you are using condoms for birth control and/or disease-prevention. Condoms should be used only once, and you should pull out immediately after orgasm with a condom. My gf and I are in a longterm, monogamous relationship, we are both known to be disease free, and we do not need condoms for birth control.

Artema: This is one thing I've always appreciated about this site (I was here many years ago named something like KongDong). The helpful information people give is great.

Artema: If my wife was more of a sex maniac that'd be what we do all the time. I could go at least once an hour throughout the day. I don't believe this constitutes multiple orgasms.

I guess I'd consider myself a grower and I'm definitley capable of continuing on without losing my erection...particularly after the first one.

That was just a lot of orgasms. A multiple orgasm is a series of orgasms, sort of mini-orgasms if you will.