Question on growers and non-growers

mr18yearold: i have recently engaged in sex for the first time a couple weeks ago and id just first like to say its great! second id like to say that i know that im 18 and im starting kind of late, but who gives a rats behind.

in responce to the topic i have recently found in me this ability to orgasm and cum multiple times in one session of sex. in between orgasms i have very little if any loss of erection and can continue having sex right after i cum. i know this is a somewhat rare ability because the woman i am currently seeing is quite surprized by this and excited as well. i dont really kno how many times i can go for but my girl and myself get too tired to continue before my penis does. so far i have orgasmed 4 times in one sex session without a loss of my erection, and continued to stay hard after we stopped, so i know that 4 is not my limit. i will post later on if i ever do find out my limit, but its definately going to be a blast finding out.

Artema: Actually, waiting until you're older, at least adult in age, is a good thing in my opinion. I waited until I was 22, by choice, and don't regret it. I now have a child through failed birth control (proper use of the pill), and am glad I was almost 24 when my child arrived, rather than 14!

I am a grower and a shower, up until just recently I have NEVER cummed twice on the same erection. I actually thought it was impossible. Suppose it boils down to who is helping and how stimulated you are.

Zora, as others have said, that is 'just' a lot of sex, not multiple orgasms.

I haven't gone 7 times in one day (yet) but I've also not yet met a woman willing to try that. Usually life gets in the way of dedicating an entire day to sex.

My maximum so far is 3 times within an hour or two one morning. Double headers, and evening/morning combos have been much more common. I'd love to shatter my record with a willing woman. ;) I have noticed that on every vacation I have taken with a girlfriend, we've had sex at least once a day. Usually vactions can tire you out with running around and doing the touristy things, but something about being away from work and home gets my libido going.

I once a read sex column interview in which one woman said that she was willing and ready every time her man got an erection. She said something like "If he can get it up, it's my job to make it go back down again." She honestly thought an erection was a terrible thing to waste. My kind of woman.

I wonder if she's single again, or has a sister?

LapDog2001 :P

I consider myself a shower/grower. I too have the ability to last for extended periods of time without losing my erection. I have the ability to have mutliple orgasms shooting a load each time. I don't know how many times I can climax in one session as I have never counted. I do know that each subsequent orgasm takes a little longer to achieve and each load gets smaller.

I know I'm a grower - Madame Zora cleared that up for me ;-)...
(always nice to have someone put your in your proper place now and then)

Anywho, Artema, you've asked if showers have a better shot at "continuing" but I'm here to say that isn't quite the case. I'm not a shower but I've been known to stay hard through an orgasm. Haven't done it through two but on more than a few occasions, I've remained hard after I came the first time.

I think that situation has more to do with degree of "turned-on-ness" and the ol ticker in your chest (i.e. cardiovascular fitness) than being bigger soft than others.

I always edge when I masterbate, so I suppose that's got to exercise something that lets me occasionally fuck right through an orgasm.

Carolina, you sure know the way to a girl's heart :wub:

Her stomach?

Well, for some on here, that might be a viable point of entry, hehe.

Oh wait, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. For women, it's...Well, I'll keep the jokes PG-rated today. You catch my drift, I'm sure.

The ability (or I would say the need) to stay hard after ejaculation and to come again has always been part of my sexual makeup. It's one reason among others that I never adapted to condom use, as Donk says — and for pretty well exactly the reasons he says, too.

I'm not sure I would call it multiple orgasm, it is more like a series of orgasms. Nor am I convinced that is has much to do, if anything, with my erect size or the fact that I am also big flaccid. I'm sure others can do this, and that they aren't necessarily well hung men, just very highly sexed.

This used to happen a lot more in my 20s and 30s than it does now, but even then it was unpredictable — just occasionally two or three ejaculations would still leave me hard and aching for more, while at other times one was enough. The trouble is, soreness sets in for both of you, as it takes longer each time, so after a while you tend to need to resolve matters on your own :(

The only way I could forecast this phenomenon is by paying attention to a very congested and aching sort of feeling in my groin.

One odd fact that I noticed pretty early on was that after the first come if I clearly needed another my erection would increase in size rather than shrink as normal; in fact it will often swell up beyond my standard size enough to make it look as if it is going to burst a blood vessel. Anyone else experienced this?

drezner: I grow from about 4.5 to 8 inches and I have to agree with donk, the double dip thig really works well I've been able to cum twice without going all the way soft, on a few ocasions. I think its more how you do it than if you show or grow. I've used this and madame zoras edging to great results. Maybe its all in our minds, I don't know. I've always been able to last at least a half hour of hard action and bounce back quickly to go at it again., but not always can I get the two orgasms without going soft inbetween.

suaige: I'm also a shower & grower,but more of a shower, as much as I would like to be muliply orgazmic, even the few time it stayed up after ejaculation, I couldn't come again.