Some wish to deflower, man or woman. A virgin is not something you run across every day, so I suspect that some are on the "prowl" for just that, a virgin. Other's are satisfied with whoever, and are much more less into prowling.

With that said, I wouldn't doubt that if you were a homosexual male and you deflowered a straight guy, that it would be a bit of empowerment. Maybe not consciously, but subconsciously you are "turning" heterosexuals in your favor by deflowering them. After all, it seems to me (a hetero that the people most afraid of gay guys is straight guys. Most women don't care, or enjoy a gay man's presence). So I can see it as being empowering in that sense... But, who knows. Maybe he feels "screwed" by the straight community so now he is screwing them??? (sorry, that was bad)

With that said, I don't see anything wrong with being anally stimulated as I've been doing it for years, and I'm only 26... However, I am kind of questioning if this "straight" guy was really straight in the first place. Sounds kind of like he is still in the closet to me... but that is just IMHO.