sapman--I think if we're honest around here, many of us (being larger than average that is) notice less than rigid "rock-hard" erections. Just blame the physiology of what's required! You're easily in good company among your fellow members. The challenge of getting and staying hard varies too, with our age.
But then, consider whether we're talking getting hard or HAVING a "usable" erection strength. Also consider reasons beyond physical ones which are affecting your erection. Could it be stress? How often are you encountering problems with your erections? Are there any emotional "triggers" coming into play here? Sometimes, through the process of elimination of the possibilities behind the problem, men can finally detect the culprit...often subtle, hidden reasons, easily missed. Occasionally, simple nutritional supplements geared toward male health will improve erections and performance. I found that out personally!
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As to that contraption of a thing (vacuum pump) which the Army provided, you deserve better! WHAT you were given (that ill-fitting device) just illustrates your size is indeed the exception over the average. So, take heart. ;)
I especially found that glued together "solution" to your dilemma laughable. As I said, you deserve better. Obviously, the Army was trying to make do with a pump designed for average size fellas. You're not an average size for sure. You (now) should be convinced! You certainly DO qualify (in dimensions anyway) to "hang" around here with us!
If you really need "mechanical" assistance in achieving a usable erection, there are better quality pumps available with made-to-order cylinders fitted for YOUR specific needs. Among the better quality pump manufacturers is:
www.vacu-tech.com
I'm not an official rep of theirs....just a satisfied customer over several times.
Their products and the technology behind them... seems solid. I've bought both manual and electric pumps from this company. They are ahead of the competiiton hands down. They've been in business for years and are not "fly by night scams".
Sapman, 'hope your time here with us WILL help you in many ways. :D