I would say that all the things you've mentioned are "traits"
not anything inherited per se from your parents.
Why would you want to put out your "bad traits" anyway?
I don't think I'd want to brag about that.
Not criticisizing just saying......
To answer your "who cares what my motivation is." question.
You do or you wouldn't have bothered to write up another post to explain why it's not bragging to everyone.
Chill straight guy.
cigarbabe