Notaguru, have you tried using large dildos on her, getting her hot this way and then sneaking into a discussion of having her pretend it was somebody else's dick, best case somebody she knows and likes? Add a vibrator to the situation also to really get her going, the big dildo vibrator combo is very compelling for most women.

During the "hot talk" tell her how hot she is, how great and tight her vagina is and how much you would enjoy "showing her off" by having another man feel how good her tight vagina would feel on his big dick, this of course going on while you are pushing the big dildo in and out of her.

A few months of using this method got me pretty close with the ex-wife in really pulling it off, she had agreed in concept to finding a young stud with a large unit and letting him have her while I held her and kissed her and played with her breasts. Unfortunately our marriage fell apart (non-sexual reasons, that part was always good) before we could put it in action.

I guess it did happen actually anyway, she confessed to having affairs with 2 handymen and somebody she met at a bookstore. 2 of these guys had really big dicks and she told me in detail what they did to her, one was really thick and fucked her in the ass. Still gets me hard thinking about that (right now for example), even though it was behind my back. I like to fantasize about fucking her in the ass right after he did and feeling how much his thick dick relaxed her ass, along with feeling her ass be slippery from his cum.

CalBoy