Im gay and let me say this, when we were able to be married i thought, no way do i want to be like the str8's, but then i met someone, and i would defineatley put a ring on this man's finger and marry him, only problem is, he is fresh to the gay screen, (a confused bi, but when drinking, the real him comes out), so now i guess its a matter of waiting to see what happens, (its only been 3 yrs now)! Guess im wasting my time waiting.