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Originally Posted by Phil Ayesho  Red has a point in mentioning your relative newbness... you sling some pretty accusatory lingo for a guy who has not read much of what others have written.
I don't think anyone here could reasonably suggest that I have not called women on their behavior, nor avoided taking women to task for the way many of them treat men.
But get this straight... that some women may treat men badly does NOT exculpate men for their own bad actions.
Sorry... I don't agree with the women here very often, but when I do its not because I lack balls... its because I employ my brain.
That's the part of your body at the opposite end of your spine from the balls with which you do your "thinking".
Real men treat women with respect... unless and until they directly ask us to do otherwise.
BTW... real men treat other men with the same respect. |
I don't know what kind of behavior he was referring to. He seems pretty vague which really tells me he generalizes all women to be the same. I am surrounded by some very respectful and darling men in my life so i would never assume all men treat women with disrespect.
My first experience with a male was my father and 4 brothers that were not misogynistic in nature at all. So i wasnt raised with any preconceived notions about negative male behavior. In fact, my mom was an invariable Donna Reed in many ways. I learned a lot of how to be a good wife from her.
What i'm getting at is that my post about porn behavior has turned into a mud slinging fest towards women by guys who were offended by it. My commentary never suggested that all men are this way. The people who quit commenting in this topic already got that point about my original post. There are several who keep applying whatever they decide to do in the bedroom to what we often see posted in major porn hubs.
I worry about people who have preconceived notions about any particular group of people. I figure it has a lot to do with their own self esteem and how they were raised. I've been thoroughly surprised in my lifetime by all types, in a good and bad way.
I have to wonder what these people are like to live with when they are always shadow boxing for the fear of being discriminated against for their gender.
I feel no discrimination as a female, never have in my lifetime. I have nothing to be upset towards men about for any reason. If someone treats me with disrespect- i'll take it up with that person and not chalk it up to whatever gender they are.
I think that defines true maturity.