From the female perspective... the change in the shape of the penis sometimes caused by pumping can be unattractive, yes it makes the penis larger - esp if you are pumping for girth - but it doesn't look the same. It also isn't always practical from the "put it in and pound me good" point of view either. I've seen pumping results that were hot, but some that well, just looked freaky.

I've had a few friends have good results with jelqing - one that gained 7/8 inch in less than 6 months going from 3.5 inch to almost 4.5 inches. I hope he keeps it up but doubt that even years of jelqing would bring him to my desired size (7+ inches). I also talked to one man a few times that wore a streching device daily under his pants. He had length alright, but it was fairly skinny for the girth/length ratio.

No matter how you guys enhance the size, I still love a good hard one.