Then why do women call each other sluts and whores? When I was in college, I lost count of how many women would walk up to their friend and say, "hey, ho!" or "yo, ho!"or even yell it at a friend who was 50 yards away and the whole quadrant would hear it. I'm not saying it's right or that I'm justifying the behavior, (in fact, I found it frustrating to hear those women say that to one another), but do you see how this causes confusion? The problem, I see is that it's on both sides of the coin. Women need to demand respect from men and women and they need to live it. It's like a time I was at a dance club and this song with the chorus of "shake your ass, bitch" came on and the women literally ran to the dance floor. Dancing like a stripper while some singer is calling you a bitch is not the way to signal to a guy that you are looking for his respect. A standard has to be held and demanded.

I agree with some of the previous posts that a lot of guys don't call their wives/fiancees/girlfriends/friend with benefits, etc a slut or whore in the bedroom. I don't think the porn industry is an indicator of that kind of a trend. It doesn't surprise me that things are becoming abusive in the porn industry, b/c well, you're dealing with the nature of the beast. As pointed out in an earlier post........the weirder/more abusive/extreme it gets the more money the participants make. Basically said, greed. Greed and respect don't mix, period. The other factor is that up to 80% of all women involved in the porn industry were molested and/or raped as girl and/or teenagers. Basically said, bad boundaries is normal for them, b/c they don't exactly know what a good, healthy, normal sexual relationship is like, thus they allow themselves to be abused, b/c it's normal for them. Once again, I'm not saying I agree with it. I agree, this needs to be done away with, but in all honesty, as long as greed and sexual abuse are happening, then it will be that much more prominent in porn.