No one woman can speak for all. I know I myself have always dated men at least 20 years older then myself. I was never attracted much to men my own age and younger men were simply out of the question. No exceptions.
Until, I met a man much younger who "is" an exception. Maturity is not measured by the age of a man. Nor is a man's ability to connect with his partner. Some men are still boys in there 60's and some are over the hill at 22. So, if that's what you feel you want just do it.
My "exception" turned out to be a man I have searched my entire life for. Even his faults serve to correct where I fall short. His honesty and integrity have surpassed the characters of many I have viewed as sophisicated and dignified before him. Nothing has ever come close to his uncomprimising demand for high standards in a relationship. I could never honor and respect a man more or find one as worthy as the image he has projected of himself to me.
I'm a Scorpio woman so, if it's sincere it's flattering. If not it's insulting. If a man checks out an older woman because, he simply is wanting sex...no wonder you can't tell if she's really interested. If she wants a sex only relationship....you will see the word "quickie" written across her forehead. Enjoy the ride. (Nothing offensive but, not all guys are truly serious about this subject)." |