She should take responsibility for her own feelings and not use her friends for a excause. Friends come and go but, a good relationship is between two adults. She must have an attraction to you yet it's not strong enough to overcome this problem. Think if you stayed with this person you would have to stay on your toes and always worry about "not" seeming gay to her. Find someone who cares for who you are. Your word should have been enough for her. Her loss. |