I used to talk with J.R. online about 3 years ago. He lived in San Francisco and worked in the medical profession. From what I could tell, he started his Yahoo group just for fun (or maybe for the benefit of a few friends), then got a real kick out of the fact that he got "discovered" and actually had fans all over the world. Then I think someone in the porn industry planted the idea in his head that he could make money off his talent, and actually produced a DVD that was for sale for a while. Then I think he kind of got overwhelmed by it all and decided to disappear.