What is the big deal ?? from what i hear straight guys check each other out all the time, either at gyms or urinals in a non sexual way or whatever, i honestly do not see what the problem is. If you feel violated then wear shorts, or don't go or go to a mixed sauna, Women put up with this evryday, men looking at boobs when talking to them etc, it honestly is no big deal, i used to have jacuzzi at my gym and can remeber a older guy touching me in the pool at first i thought it was bubbles lol, i removed his hand and politely asked him not to as i was not interested and that was the end of it.Another guy was there all the time at my gym, he was openly gay and used to give the guys massages not sexual, it was a butch male gym etc, everyone knew he was gay but that did not bother people, he was good at it he was funny and witty and guys used to be pissed off if he was not there as they felt relaxed when they left, i guess its how you look and disect situations, not everything is sordid mate.Sounds like a little bit of homophobia setting in here, lighten up.