I'm straight. My wife bought me one. What a great toy. We always love having long sex play before actually having sex. We had all the normal toys and then she saw about the Fleshlights. She ordered one for me and we just love playing with it. Actually, I think it has helped me to go longer with a hard on before shooting off. She enjoys slipping it on me and going up and down with it. Fun toy, that is for sure. Usually we just play with it for awhile and then switch other other things, but sometimes I will ask her to just go all the way with me and let me shoot off my cum. Really enjoyable.