I found the one I thought I had deleted.
Hi, I’m ____, hope you dont mind me writing to you, but I found this site because I had been online looking for info or advice on a this topic, because I know young guy who has this same issue, only very extreme, and I think he could use some counseling on it. I looked in the members list and selected people who were recently active on the site so I know they still come here to send this message to.
I was wondering if you know someone here who would be willing to talk to him or counsel him on this? He is 18, a foster boy who recently moved into my sister’s home. He is very naïve for his age though due a very sheltered upbringing, he was raised and home schooled by his grandmother way out in the mountains of Kentucky, no school, no TV, no PC, no other kids around, nothing, and as a result he has lots of catching up to do. He is clueless about a lot of things, both academically and socially. She taught him to read and write well, but not a whole lot more. His grandmother went into a nursing home and he had to placed in foster, so he has been at my sister’s place for about 2 months now. I only know about his “issue” because I accidentally saw, was over there once and we were all working out and afterward I accidentally walked in on him getting ready for the shower, luckily he was not aware, but that is when I could not help but to notice. To be frank, it’s extremely large, and I know average is 6 erect, but this poor young guy has closer to twice that soft. It's really unusual, might even say abnormally oversized. I looked in the gallery here and dont see anything like it. The worst part is, he is clueless at this point. He just assumes all males are his size, and it’s ashame that he is going to get a rude awakening now that he is out in society, someone eventually will comment or be shocked and he wont even be aware or prepared for their reactions. It just seems someone should clue the guy in. We arent going to talk to him about this in person because that would be terribly embarrassing coming from folks here hardly knows yet. That is why I wondered if someone here could privately take him aside and clue him in a bit about this. I had no idea this type of body type even existed out there, so I am hoping there are more knowledgable people here on this board. Any suggestions who I could get to chat to him? Thanks |