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Originally Posted by RedBoy2  You are totally full of shit! Since when is extending your hand for a polite shake a request for a date or sex? It used to be called having good manners.
Even if the other guy is in a relationship, what is the harm in him at least being polite? Maybe if the atmosphere were a little more relaxed in gay bars they would be more fun. What's wrong with just being friendly and social? That's why these guys are so uptight -- they assume it's always about fucking! |
Well, you and dreamer were both right in these posts. A handshake during introductions is indeed good manners. And the atmosphere could indeed use a bit of chillin'. But dreamer made a good point: judging from the story in the OP, and the way in which it was presented, it
did sound like the OP was
wanting to make some moves. I'm just curious; if the 21-year-old cousin did look like the Hunchback, how much differently would the scene have played out?
The first and last lines tell a lot that's not expressed in words:
"I seem to be the most down to earth gay guy I know. And I don't look like the hunchback of norte dame either.
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It just seems any gay guy thats even relatively cute.....has a chip on their shoulder...."