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Originally Posted by eastbaydude  Sorry, I'm trying to imply that there's anything wrong with guys kissing. It's just not in the works for me.
I've gotten off with guys before. I've been sucked and did the fucking. (For the record, I haven't sucked or been fucked) - I'm OK with it. I did it. It felt good. I blew my load. No big deal. BUT - I don't think it really makes me gay. There just wasn't an emotional connection. It really was just getting off.
When I see a good looking women, I get a chruning in my stomach that drops to my crotch. I fantasize about what she looks like naked and what it be like to make love to with her. With a guy, I can recognize the he's good looking but it doesn't make me "feel" anything. There is a BIG difference between sex and sexuality.
I hope that helps make sense. |
I'm not going to spend too much time on this, seriously these are your issues, not mine. You've set up the classic denial that as long as you're the top--the giver, you're not gay. I'm not saying or implying you are gay. It seems rather clear that you are attracted to guys and you've sought out sexual experiences with guys but you mentally can't process the idea of being gay or bisexual. Fine. But please with the delusion. Your cock just didn't happen to fall into an ass, or a mouth, or your fingers up their ass or your mouth on their chest--you didn't trip and fall into a guy. There are several actions and processes that led to those behaviors and situations. If you didn't feel anything for guys, you wouldn't have done anything with them. You don't "feel" the same strong connection because you simply won't allow yourself to. Whatever. Your beliefs have served you well until now and you'll continue to enjoy them. Just don't insult us all by listing your sexual experiences with guys, which rivals what a lot "straight", bisexual or gay guys have done with guys (not all guys have anal sex) and then say that kissing a guy is "ewwww" and crossing the line. You don't have any lines left to cross.