I was also talking about expectations. How does a person go from expecting something, to the realization of those expectations? Either the person has to have sole control of their life, or everyone else around the person has the same expectations for the person as they have for themselves (which is not very likely). Let's just say, my experiences have taught me the exact opposite in life. You do not get exactly what you expect...although that would be nice, since I would be able to predict everything, and would in fact be God. But to each their own, of course :)