I won't settle, but I'm different from the author of that article. I have never wanted children, and the thing I want most really IS a successful career! (well, that and lots of sex! )

I would like to find someone to love, and yes, even possibly marry, but I have a few non-negotiables. Now, there are some things that there is wiggle room on - like he doesn't have to be drop-dead good-looking (although that'd be nice...) But he MUST have similar views to mine, and he can't want children.