Well, I never have, but it's not that I wouldn't so much as we might have that combination exchange-value/use-value on both sides enough to arrive together at Valhalla where we might indulge in fantasies of uninterrupted bliss (I want to do this sort of 'late capitalism' thing with somebody...is you da man, Rubi?). Paying is also okay if it's not prosaic. I've based my whole precarious existence on the non-prosaic, but have only been paid thus far, plus some small change for a cute kid recently. But I wouldn't pay, no...charm notwithstanding You're too far away.