I have a couple j/o buddies and it's nice to be able to just call each other up and say, "hey, come over and let's play." One of them would love to do more with me -- he really wants to fuck everything in sight -- but we haven't ever gone to that point.

The friendship factor is amazing when you pretty much know "everything" about each other, down to the details of how much he shoots and what he enjoys. It's great having a good friend you can hang around with and not be embarrassed.