Two questions:

Do you have a good idea (more than one photo, preferably a webcam) of what he looks like, and vice versa?

How far away does he live?


I'm asking the first question, because just about everyone - including me - has had the experience of meeting someone they've talked to online, and realizing that they look or sound nothing they did in that image, or over the phone.

I'm asking the second question, because if he lives more than a few hours away, it could potentially be too serious; he would feel that if he traveled all that way just to see you, that you must love him and he would expect more of a serious commitment than it seems like you're ready for.

I'll try and give more advice when you fill in those blanks for me.

Edit: Wow, a troll! That's interstin'.