Not only is Snoozan female (how long have you been here already and you don't know that?) but I agree with her. How hypocritical to say that a gay man's opinion on height is irrelevant, but then go on to insist that hands down, across the board all women speak contrarily to their desires all the time. How do you think a woman feels when she reads that? Especially a woman like me who has a nice guy for a partner, whose friends all have nice guys for partners, and who has never dated the so-called "bad boy" type ever in her life. I have to say my first thoughts when I read your post were, "Really? Fuck you, Buddy!" Not that I was going to publish those thoughts or anything, just that that was my initial, internal reaction. Clearly Snoozan feels the same way.