05-10-2008
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#28 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by HyperHulk  I don't necessarily agree that entering into a monogamous relationship is 100% safe, unlike masturbation or celibacy, which are 100% sexually safe. Monogamy is taken on faith. You have to trust that your partner stays monogamous. Not everyone does. Many many people cheat--that's a fact and we all know it. And cheating occurs in relationships where people think there is no cheating. So if you chuck condoms and your partner cheats and picks up something, you might get it. So you're not 100% safe, you're living with calculated risks. You take the chance that your partner is honest. I know plenty of people who have become HIV poz because they believed they were in monogamous relationships and their partner lied. |
Of course monogamy is taken on faith. If you're not together 24 hours a day you wouldn't know if your partner was cheating on you. On the other hand, I could hook up with a different guy every night of the week and wonder every morning what I may have caught the night before. I'll take monogamy.
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Originally Posted by HyperHulk So all you've done is accept the risk, minimize the chance of something going wrong and hope that it all works out well. The OP accepted the risk, choose oral sex without a condom to intercourse without a condom and hopes that his pee doesn't burn. Despite what you wrote, he's 18, legally an adult and he made an adult decision and he will live with the consequences. Just like billions of adults. |
Did you grow up in the 1960's or were your parents products of the 60's? Wake up call: this is 2008! You're right about the OP. He is 18 (at least he says he is), and if so, he is an adult, albeit a very naive one as he's led us to believe for the past few weeks. Quote:
Originally Posted by HyperHulk If you really think monogamy makes you immune to the potential of stds then you're as naive as you're claiming we are for believe that oral sex without a condom is a safer sex than intercourse without a condom. You want immunity, masturbate or don't have sex with anyone ever. That seems to work well for priests, oh wait... | LOL You've got to be kidding. You're trying to say that I'm safer going out and having oral sex with different guys every night than being in a monogamous relationship.
I'll have to agree to disagree on this one. CYA! |
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