I've wanted a straight j/o buddy for ages. I'm a gay guy in a LT relationship with two great kids - don't want to screw that up.

I am not delusional that the buddy would be anything other than pulling our meat together, in fact the thought of it being more (i.e. 50/50 guys) makes it something I would then not want to do.

I've just always wanted a *very* straight pal about my age (late 30's) that loves self pleasure as much as I do - but, alas, other than a few open minded friends years ago in college, I've had no luck.