Best advice?

Never take ANY advice from a website \ forum \ place. Especially if you are vulnerable or really need help. There are professionals out there. And they sure as hell aren't on the places YOU are on.

I enjoy LPSG, read well, nod and agree at some posts, shake my head and sigh at others. This is great entertainment, but people here aren't real, aren't true, and you can never know who they are.

So have fun, stay safe, and don't get too pissed by the things you see.