Okay, firstly Cajun... I think what you said was funny. We really can lighten up once and a while and laugh, even when the topic is seious. On ya Cajun!

By this, I mean no disrespect, its just okay to laugh.

The primary point to hand, your boyfriend has fantasies. You have his heart. Show him you can be one of his fantasies. In the flesh.

If it is trust you are assessing, consider he has opened up to you on this topic. There is significant measure in that gesture.

I reckon, trust him.